“Spanish men will have to learn to change nappies and don washing-up gloves” under a new law requiring men to “‘share domestic responsibilities and the care and attention’ of children and elderly family members.” The law, reports The Guardian, “will become part of the marriage contract at civil wedding ceremonies later this year” and can be used in divorce proceedings. More below, and a poll . . .
“This will be a good way of reminding people what their duties are. It is something feminists have been wanting for a long time.”
Failure to meet the obligations will be taken into consideration by judges when determining the terms of divorces. Men who refuse to do their part may be given less frequent contact with their children.
What’s life like in Spanish households?
“It is not just about housework, though. Women also end up doing most of the caring for the elderly,” said Ms Uría.
A study five years ago by Spain’s Centre for Sociological Investigation concluded that fathers spent an average of 13 minutes each day looking after their children.
Only 19% of Spanish men thought it was right for mothers of school age children to have a full-time job. More than a third thought mothers should not work outside the home at all.
P.S. I searched long and hard to find another news story or commentary about this new law, but can only find The Guardian’s article.
I wonder what Falwell, Delay, Dobbins et al. will have to say about this?!
at last reveals its hideous head. 😀
This is hilarious. LOL!
19 minutes a day? Ladies, your men aren’t near as bad as the household thing as you thought they were, huh? 😉
If you’re up for it, please recommend the diary at DailyKos. TY!
Over at Kos, Lapin wrote : but I changed plenty of nappies when my kids were little. At one time, we had three in diapers, so it was as much a matter of survival and hygiene as it was a bow to egalitarianism. I don’t know about it being legislated, especially here where we have too many laws defining personal conduct as it is. I don’t think you can legislate closer relationships between parent and child either.
Is Spain going too far? Will this cause a backlash against Spain’s socialism?
This is a direct attack on personal freedom, and exactly the sort of thing we need to prevent from happening in this country.
Laws are meant to keep people from hurting and preying on each other, not to control the manner in which a citizen lives their life.
If anything, this is just another blow against possible democratic socialism.
But it’ll be interesting to see how it plays out in the media, if at all.