Now AIDS is changing that. Political and tribal leaders are starting to speak out publicly against so-called sexual cleansing, condemning it as one reason H.I.V. has spread to 25 million sub-Saharan Africans…
Even some Zambian volunteers who work to curb the spread of AIDS are reluctant to disavow the tradition. Paulina Bubala, a leader of a group of H.I.V.-positive residents near Monze, counsels schoolchildren on the dangers of AIDS. But in an interview, she said she was ambivalent about whether new widows should purify themselves by having sex with male relatives.
Her husband died of what appeared to be AIDS-related symptoms in 1996. Soon after the funeral, both Ms. Bubala and her husband’s second wife covered themselves in mud for three days. Then they each bathed, stripped naked with their dead husband’s nephew and rubbed their bodies against his.
Weeks later, she said, the village headman told them this cleansing ritual would not suffice. Even the stools they sat on would be considered unclean, he warned, unless they had sex with the nephew.
“We felt humiliated,” Ms. Bubala said, “but there was nothing we could do to resist, because we wanted to be clean in the land of the headman.”
The nephew died last year. Ms. Bubala said the cause was hunger, not AIDS. Her husband’s second wife now suffers symptoms of AIDS and rarely leaves her hut. Ms. Bubala herself discovered she was infected in 2000…
“There is no way we are going to stop this practice,” she said, “because we have seen a lot of men and women who have gone mad” after spouses died….
Evance Joseph Fundi, Ndanga’s 40-year-old headman, is courteous, quiet-spoken and a firm believer in upholding the tradition. While some widows sleep with male relatives, he said, others ask him to summon one of the several appointed village cleansers. In the native language of Chewa, those men are known as fisis or hyenas because they are supposed to operate in stealth and at night.
Mr. Fundi said one of them died recently, probably of AIDS. Still, he said with a charming smile, “We can not abandon this because it has been for generations.”…
He and the headman like to joke about the sexual demands placed upon a cleanser like Mr. Schisoni, who already has three wives. He said tradition dictates that he sleep with the widow, then with each of his own wives, and then again with the widow, all in one night. Mr. Schisoni said that the previous headman chose him for his sexual prowess after he had impregnated three wives in quick succession…
“If we don’t do it, the widow will develop the swelling syndrome, get diarrhea and die and her children will get sick and die,” he said, sitting under an awning of drying tobacco leaves. “The women who do this do not die.”
His wives support his work, he said, because they like the income: a chicken for each cleansing session. He insisted that he cannot wear a condom because “this will provoke some other unknown spirit.” He is equally adamant in refusing an H.I.V. test. “I have never done it and I don’t intend to do it,” he said.
To protect himself, he said, he avoids widows who are clearly quite sick . Told that even widows who look perfectly healthy can transmit the virus, Mr. Schisoni shook his head. “I don’t believe this,” he said. link
The depopulation of Africa is making extraordinary progress. Savvy investors take note. Without western post-colonial strategies such as careful prioritizing IMF and World Bank projects, it is unlikely that such terrific strides would have been made, nor nearly as many superhighways and similar structures built, all of which will be a great convenience to western business interests for years to come.
