Once upon a time there was a little company called Enron. My hubby worked for them. Like most employees he had no idea that he was working for crooks, and did his job well.
We saved our money, exercised our stock options, did all the right things with our money–bought a car with cash, put a new roof on and new furnace in the house, tithed generously to Oxfam, Oregon Food Bank, etc., and had more than a year’s worth of income in savings. We had no debt other than our mortgage. We did everything we were supposed to do.
We were so careful, we thought we were safe for the rest of our lives. ha!
In 2001 everything blew up; my husband lost his job, and our stock and retirement went down the rat hole with the rest of Enron’s employees’ stock and retirement. Our savings vanished. In 2002 I had a heart attack at age 41. The only job my hubby could find after a year of looking was $10/hr, no benefits, temporary, way way down the ladder in his field (basically answering the phone and talking to pissed-off people). In a year or so he got a better job–a little more money, full benefits–but we still couldn’t make ends meet and it still wasn’t in his field.
All of this sob story isn’t to ask for sympathy. We’re better off than a lot of people. I’m on the mend and we’ve managed to hold everything together. I am thankful every day we didn’t spend ourselves into a debt hole and lived below our means when times were good, that we paid cash for our car, that our house is old but sturdy, that when things were bleakest we qualified for WIC–and that it was there, that we didn’t let our COBRA health insurance lapse so the heart attack was covered, and that we have family that could help us a little.
On Monday my sweetheart has an interview, a chance for a real job, back doing what he was trained to do, for a real wage that would get us back on our feet. If you guys could just think good thoughts, or light a candle, or pray, or whatever you do, I would really really appreciate it. Thank you.
Positive enery is being beamed your way… good luck to you. Let us know how things go.
The candle is lit and we have you in our hearts and thoughts sending all good energy your way.
Hugs
Shirl
Consider them well and truly crossed (I’m very flexible – I can even get the little finger over the others).
Keres, don’t cut off your circulation on our account! 🙂
You got it, Lynn. My candles are your candles and I will keep you and your hubby in my thoughts. Wish him the very best of luck for me and let us know how it goes!
So sorry what you guys have suffered. Just more wounded without a face thanks to this Administration!
Fingers crossed. Will be thinking good vibes on Monday.
One tip for the hubby, if I may…
I’ve found that if you come off as “desperate” in an interview, it tends to turn people off (been there, done that). He needs to come off as confident and in control, regardless of his current situation.
Wishing him the best!
Mr LynnS is cool as a cuke on the outside in interviews like this. He’s already faced down the HR dept, which tried to lowball the wage. And really, we’re not desperate. Well, okay, we sorta are; it’s always an interesting-in-the-Chinese-sense experience covering our bills every month, but we’re not going to just jump at something. No sense getting into a situation that’s just the same as the one we’re in, with no seniority at that. He’s going to go in confident and excited because even better than the money, this is the work he really likes.
I didn’t mean to come off condescending. I truly have been there/done that. Wanted jobs so bad I could taste it and it wasn’t about the $$$.
I’m glad he’s already gone one round with HR and they called him back. That’s a great sign!!!
Again, good luck to the hubby. I’m sure he’ll be great.
Oh, you didn’t at all, I didn’t take your comment the wrong way.
Positive karma and good energy on its way……
will kick ass. I promise. No fingercrossing necessary!
Crossed and then kissed for good luck. I hope it’s not too strange to kiss my own fingers?
What time Monday, in what time zone? CST?
3 pm Pacific time.
Good. I’ll remind everybody in the Froggy Bottom Cafe to send good wishes at that time.
Speaking as a spouse of a variously unemployed and underemployed husband I empathize – big time. Very best wishes. Both of you try to relax this week-end. Try to make sure he gets lots of rest, has some fun, goes in to the interview calm and confident.
We’re building our chicken coop this weekend, so we’ll have plenty to keep this off our minds. The girls are insisting on painting it pink. sigh.
Just a side note: I say “we” when I talk about his work–“we” work for x company–because we are a partnership. I don’t work there.
As a homemaking advocate I see stay-at-home spouses as the support system that keeps a wage-earner spouse able to work; that means “we,” not “he,” work for his employer. I have my own little side business as a web developer that has helped get the ends a little closer to meeting lately, but I can only work so much; I’m still nursing myself back to health, and I’m homeschooling our girls.
You sound like a great person and a shining example for your daughter.
I wish your family the absolute best and am off to light some candles for you right now. hugs
everything crossed that possibly could be crossed here. Prayers coming your way. Lots of hugs..
I’ve crossed everything still flexible enough to be crossed for you and your family.
Your post is also a good reminder that while those responsible have so far been able to walk away and live their comfortable lives; honest, good, hardworking people are having to live with the consequences everyday.
Best of luck to you and your family.
best of luck.. and here’s a little dash of pixie dust, too..
Good Luck to both of you. I just know something good is comming your way!
walk with you and yours on this path of adventure and life. May the wind always blow with the best that life offers and may the waters of life shower you with the greatness of living a wonderfully full and happy existence in this life.