This happy story carries a risk since it is sometimes easy for misunderstanding online. We can’t see each other’s facial expressions. We don’t know each other except from our online postings. So please accept tonight’s happy story for what it is as just a brief tale of happiness from long ago.
With that out of the way, please join me on the jump for tonight’s happy story.
My senior year at Ohio University, I took a course to fulfill a college requirement that required me to attend concerts and plays throughout the quarter and to write critiques of them.
I knew little of music despite four years of high school choir, which I took along with other football players since it was an easy credit. I knew even less about plays (though I once had performed as a monkey in a first-grade Christmas pageant). And I knew nothing of dance.
I had grown up on a small farm in rural southcentral Ohio. Not to say you can’t have cultural experiences growing up in rural Ohio, but the opportunities are not readily present.
So I enjoyed the class as a new experience despite the difficulties my lack of knowledge presented me in judging the performances. I wrote my critiques in the style of Rolling Stone album reviews, the only thing I had to draw upon in writing them. Apparently I wrote them in an amusing enough manner for the graduate assistant to grade them kindly instead of faulting me for my probable many errors.
And I did enjoy the class. I listened to YoYo Ma perform, watched Russian ballerinas dance and attended Noises Off!
The class was one of the few bright spots for me. My father had recently died, a wonderful girlfriend had ended a relationship and I had little money despite working 20 plus hours a week.
It was a small class held in a cramped space in an old building heated by a radiator that always seemed too hot or too cold.
I think I slept a lot in the class because I remember little of the classtime. Just the shows.
There was one student in the class who was stunningly beautiful. She looked and moved and had the lithe form of a brunette Grace Kelly at 19. I knew little of her other than it was said she came from old money and she expressed liberal views. She always carried herself with a certain gravitas, but she never seemed to put on airs in the class. She always had an easy smile to her.
I spoke little in the class out of fear of exposing how wide my ignorance was.
The last performance required for the class (I can’t remember what it was) was on a winter’s night. It was very dark when the performance ended and very cold when I stepped outside. I recall it had not been as cold when the sun had been up, but a front had moved in and sharply turned the previously wet sidewalks into ice and a snow had befun falling.
The young woman I mentioned earlier stepped outside and shivered. She shivered. Since we both left at the same time and were heading in the same direction we fell in step together.
And when we came to an icy set of stairs I instinctively held my arm out to support her and she took it.
And she kept it there as we walked. We talked of the performance and we spoke of others we had seen. And I asked her about why she attended the class. She wanted to be a writer. She was an English major. We talked of authors and favorite books.
It felt good walking with a beautiful woman holding my arm across the lovely Ohio University green at night.
We walked slowly, but eventually we got to her dorm and we said good bye and parted.
There was no farewell kiss, no attempt for a kiss. I did not want to risk spoiling a lovely moment that even as I walked with her I knew I would lock away and save. And I didn’t see her any more for the rest of the school year.
But I remember her and her kindess. And I probably always will.
That’s my happy story for tonight. Your happy story might be any story you wish to share.
Yes I know about paths splitting in woods and I’m happy with the one I’ve taken.
Found a photo on the OU site of College Green in winter
Wow. You are incredible Carnacki! I was right there walking with you…
My happy story is small this week and it’s not really mine.
Danni kept at it and the school decided to reinstate providing UNICEF donation boxes for trick or treaters. She has been doing this since the start of school and was pretty bummed out that they had decided not to do it because they felt it was all “too political”. She voiced her dissent all this time and on Monday, the school sent out UNICEF boxes.
Hooray. And she made close to 20 bucks, too. She only went to a few houses this year. She wanted to come back and pass out candy so her route was short.
But… every day just about – come to think of it – my kids ARE my happy story.
And… I still got all smiley when I think of joking around with you Carnacki in a diary long time ago – about duct tape. π
Thanks Janet! BTW, you’re mentioned in the comments on the DailyKos version.
touchatouchatouchatouchame π
I have not played in that. I’ve been in Tommy though. But one day I would LOVE to play either Magenta or … Janet.
Your story brought mine to mind, Carnacki . . . hopefully, you won’t mind the similarity.
I was in southern California on a business trip that required me to stay over the weekend. My colleague and I took the opportunity of a break to do a bit of roller blading on the Strand near Redondo Beach. As a native Midwesterner, I had never seen anything like the variety of people passing by on that Saturday afternoon, most of whom were ridiculously handsome or beautiful. Certainly, all of them were as healthy as the day is long.
One passing face in particular caught my attention, that of a dark-haired guy with carelessly good looks. But I figured he, like the others, was to be a quickly passing memory. To my surprise, about 15 minutes after he initially passed by, I found him at my side. He said he had been thinking about me ever since we first passed and that he decided to turn around and come talk to me. We had a nice visit there on the beach, and he invited me out to a Dodger game that night. I told him I couldn’t go because I had other plans and, to be honest, I was a little nervous about putting myself in that situation with someone I didn’t know at all.
He was gracious and said he hoped I would call him before returning home. He gave me his card and I saw that he was an aspiring actor, another item about him that I found extremely charming. Though I did not call him, I ran into him again before leaving, this time on the Santa Monica Pier. I was flying out that afternoon and it was too late to spend time with him.
I trust that there was a reason I did not pursue things with him further, though I have from time to time wondered it if was mere coincidence that I ran into him a second time. But I still cherish the romantic little story of our meeting and savor the good feeling it gave me to know that this charming guy saw something in me that made him turn around and retrace his steps just to have the chance to meet me.
Great story.
I had a great cat-Whiskers, for 18 years who died a few years ago. I called her my nurse as she was extremely responsive to me when I was ill. I called her my shadow as she followed me everywhere.
When she became listless and unable to eat, my daughter and I took her to the vets and had her put to sleep. On the vet’s table, after we had made the decision she suddenly stood up and “kissed” us good bye. My daughter and I cried as we knew it was goodbye. Whiskers was a very talkative cat so we knew we had made the right decision.
About a month later I was on vacation with my ex and his wife Sharon. The three of us have maintained a great relationship over the years because of our daughter.
Well, Sharon and I were sitting on the beach in Avon, NC just gabbing and talking about Whiskers and her cat and stuff. She had taken care of my cat for two years when my daughter lived with her and my daughter’s dad, so she knew what a neat cat whiskers was.
I suddenly looked up and could not believe what I saw. Without telling Sharon what I saw I told her to look up at the sky and I pointed to a cloud.
She stared at it and her jaw dropped and she looked at me with awe and said Oh my God- There was the most detailed cat face cloud looking down at us- It had eyes, whiskers, ears – there was no mistake that it was a cat.
We both looked at each other and said “It’s Whiskers.”
Great post.
though not really a story.
Last Saturday my husband, my sister, her husband, and I had our fifth annual Combined Birthday Celebration Japanese Food Feast.
We have friends who own a Japanese restaurant. Often they will suggest dishes for us that are on version of the menu that is in Japanese, all of which have been both excellent and interesting.
Five years ago I had brilliant (sorry, I have humility issues) idea to ask them if they would they prepare us a meal of dishes they chose. We gave them a budget to work with and told them we were ready to eat anything they chose to put in front of us.
These meals are so much fun and so filled with wonderful food that just thinking about them makes me happy (and hungry). Each one has included dishes that are not on either the English menu or the Japanese menu. Whole steamed flatfish, eel dishes with magnificent sauces, unusual rice rolls, seaweed and roots. And always a huge wooden boat filled with sushi, sashimi, and sushi rolls. The feast usually goes on for two hours or more and when we are done, we have (un)shamefully overeaten.
Of all the dishes we have had, we are all agreed that the most wonderful is Chawanmushi, a steamed custard in a cup, made with egg, fish, mushrooms, and chicken. This dish is almost never found on menus because it takes too long to make and cannot be prepared in advance.
Sometimes, friendships pay you back in ways you couldn’t have imagined.
I live in Florida, sometimes it rains a lot, sometimes not. After about four weeks of not rain we finally got some dark clouds passing overhead. I looked hopefully out the window in passing, and suddenly it began to rain.
We have a frog who lives under our front porch step whom I call Jeremiah. As I was watching the rain fall I saw Jeremiah hop out from under the step. He just sat there watching a puddle fill up. Finally when he decided it was a good depth, he hopped into the puddle and sat there (smiling, I think.)
This is one of the most joyful moments I can remember of late. I keep it in the basket of memories beside the view out that same window of a baby mourning dove taking his first flight.
My happiness is remembering to be grateful for the blessing of a window.
that Jeremiah was a bullfrog?
From Matsuo Basho, his most famous of haiku;
“Breaking the silence
Of an ancient pond,
A frog jumps in —
Deep resonance.”
During the military dictatorship of 76-82 I often had to leave Argentina because I just couldn’t take it anymore. I spent one year here in the US, and and from 79 through 82 i would seek some peace and tranquility in Brazil.
I ended up in a small fishermen townabout 130 miles north of Rio de Janeiro, named Buzios, which during the Summer it would be a resort town. Small place, about 2000 people.
Anyways, during the off season it was very peacefull and quiet. After being there for a while, I noticed that sometines the power would go out. Then I also became aware that it wouold generally coincide with the fullmoon.
Later I learned that somehow, the power would be turned off on purpose when the full moon was in the sky.You would walk through the town and if there was any light at all it was from the lanterns. The ocean side road was absolutly stunning, an dyou could see the people gathered at the beach with a huge fire burnning. It seemed that nothing else existed.
I love your happy stories Carnacki!!
Great and happy story about the full moonlight.
I soent quite a bit of time in Argentina in the late ’70s and early ’80s. While I can’t say that period of time generated a surfeit of happy stories, indeed the monstrosity of the regime was appalling), Argentina is an incredibly beautiful country.
My wife and I had a place in Belgrano in BA and also a small place we bought in Miramar, just down the coast from Mar Del Plata, where you were yesterday.
I haven’t travelled to Argentina now since around the time since just before Menem became president, (1988-89?).
I hope that things go well for you in your glorious country.
Thanks very much.
Here’s a happy story that only a liberal would love.
One day back in the 70’s, I was walking down a busy Madrid street by myself, looking very blond, when a handsome black man suddenly appeared and began to walk along at my side. We smiled at each other and kept walking, side by side. He engaged me in chitchat and then asked me out. I turned him down–with some regret–because I didn’t just walk off with strange men no matter how good looking they were. He smiled and nodded, offered me a friendly goodbye and walked away in another direction, probably thinking, “No harm in trying.”
As I walked on I felt so happy to be in a place in the world where it was possible for that tiny public encounter between a young black man and a young white woman to happen with no ugly consequences.
for Franklin?
You’re quick! I wondered that myself after I wrote the above. Very well could be. I’ve often put in stuff the way I want the world around me to be rather than the way it is at the mo.
girl and not ask about the other inspirations for Franklin.
Tee hee.
Good morning!
It’s so good to see your diaries, Carnacki – and that alone creates a happy story! (Along with the lovely tale you shared)
I have to admit to spending a great deal of time pondering this line from your diary:
“I once had performed as a monkey in a first-grade Christmas pageant”
Try as I might, I couldn’t imagine where monkeys would enter a Christmas pageant. (Was it the Intelligent Design version?)
Good day!
The pageant was set in a toy shop. I was a windup monkey that came to life. The fireman pushed me in his truck. It was quite a dramatic scene.
With deepest regrets, I’m terribly sorry to have missed such a riveting moment in our nation’s history of stage and screen.
Thanks for starting my Sunday with a smile. Have yourself a terrific day, Carnacki. :^)
I accompanied her to Jamaica. My task was to babysit her daughter while she did clinicals. We were in the backside of Jamaica – not the tourist side. I loved it there. Chickens, goats and dogs ran freely. The granddaughter and I had a little hotel room. There was a tiny tiny beach allotted to that hotel, but it was perfect. There was a larger beach allotted to the hospital and it was spacious with much more sand. The little one went to a day care and I would get her there and bring her back but I had time for myself then. I must confess that I would use those hours for air conditioning and reading! Everyone was so nice and so mannerly that I felt rather coarse in comparison. There were a couple of big mango tree outside of the nurses dorm and every now and then someone would shake some mangos down. Most meals consisted of cabbages and fish. I suspect if I had such a diet now I would be much better off physically! I really enjoyed my time there. I felt the gulf between the people there and myself and I wanted somehow to bridge it but I couldn’t in that short time. I bought some broccoli from the market and all the folks were amazed that I would actually enjoy eating it! Things were high there, but sharing a cab was normal. I felt no fear although we had heard there were bandits in the hills. What I did feel was this was a paradise that people were not permitted to really enjoy because of the ever present sense of lack.
Excellent post as always. love your happy stories.
Earlier this year, (March), my previous cardiologist did tests which showed my heart had a 15% injection fraction, (injection/ejection fractions are measurements having to do with basically how much blood the heart can pump). This is quite low, but considering I was alive at all was nothing short of miraculous to begin with, (major, fatal heart attack in Feb.’04 from which I was resuscuitated but which resulted in many many other complications at the tie), the doctor was quite surprised at the fact that I was even ambulatory.
My new cardio doc ran tests last week and informed me that my “fraction” is now 40%. He expressed utter astonishment at this degree of improvement in someone who had experienced the severity of what I’d undergone previously.
So, I’m very happy indeed!
Congratulations sbj. Thats about as good as a happy story gets!
That story makes us ALL happy.
That’s great news-nohing short of miraculous!
Congratulations! Sometimes I wish I had a heart. Othertimes people tell me I have the heart of a young boy and I say, “Yes, I keep it in a jar on my desk.”
No
Is it tactless of me to lol?
You’re here, surrounded by folks who care about you a great deal and wish you the best of everything. That alone seems like a wonderful beginning to a happy story. (I’ll allow you to finish the remaining chapters) :^)
Wishing you a fabulous day! (As fabulous as possible)
My happy story is that our DINO mayor who had the gall to endorse Bush last year is going down next Tuesday to a real Democrat.
I hope its not bad taste to say that I wrote a diary about all of this here.
My policy is anyone can pimp any thing they want in my diaries. Also that is a happy story.