I was born and I live in Jackson, Mississippi, near what is known by convention as 90 degrees west longitude, 32 degrees north latitude. (You can look up your own location on this arbitrary scale here.)
As a result of this curious happenstance, and by conventional rights, I am qualified to call myself a citizen of the municipality of Jackson, Mississippi, a citizen of the state of Mississippi, and a citizen of the United States of America. Thus, I could be described as a Jacksonian, a Mississippian, and an American. When it is convenient I use these monikers myself. I apply them to myself and to others. I also use my regional identity as a Southerner when it is convenient.
There is no escaping from these conventions because they are widely accepted as shorthand descriptors for sets of attitudes and outlooks in a convenient, but limited and faulty, tribal identification scheme. For example, folks from rural Mississippi may use the words “Jackson folk” to describe and attribute urban attitudes and problems to the tribe of Jacksonians. Likewise, many who make statements about Mississipians, Southerners, or Americans use these tribal identification schemes to describe their broad views of humans within these geographic boundaries. In some cases, the utility of these modern tribal identification schemes makes their usage nearly unavoidable.
We’ll come back to 90 degrees west longitude, 32 degrees north latitude shortly, but first, I digress:
I am not a paleo-ethno-anthro expert, so when I recently became more interested in the concepts of tribe and tribalism, I googled ‘tribalism’. Amongst the first two or three hundred results out of 1.1 million google hits, there seems to be much discussion about and even acceptance of the idea that all humans are hard-wired to consider themselves a part of some tribe or another. There is also a recent surge of new brain studies suggesting that certain prejudices are hard-wired into our brains. One of the interesting things that I found while researching tribalism was the concept of Dunbar’s Number (yes, I know it is merely a link to the wikipedia, but it will suffice for my non-rigorous purposes).
Primatologists have noted that, due to their highly social nature, non-human primates have to maintain personal contact with the other members of their social group, usually through grooming. Such social groups function as protective cliques within the physical groups in which the primates live. The number of social group members a primate can track appears to be limited by the volume of the neocortex region of their brain. This suggests that there is a species-specific index of the social group size, computable from the species’ mean neocortex volume.
In a 1993 article, Dunbar used the correlation observed for non-human primates to predict a social group size for humans. Using a regression equation on data for 36 primate genera, Dunbar predicted a human “mean group size” of 147.8 (casually represented as 150), a result he considered exploratory due to the large error measure (a 95% confidence interval of 100 to 230).
Dunbar then compared this prediction with observable group sizes for humans. Beginning with the assumption that the current mean size of the human neocortex had developed about 250,000 years BCE, i.e. during the Pleistocene, Dunbar searched the anthropological and ethnographical literature for census-like group size information for various hunter/gatherer societies, the closest existing approximations to how anthropology reconstructs the Pleistocene societies. Dunbar noted that the groups fell into three categories — small, medium and large, equivalent to bands, cultural lineage groups and tribes — with respective size ranges of 30-50, 100-200 and 500-2500 members each.
Dunbar’s surveys of village and tribe sizes also appeared to approximate this predicted value, including 150 as the estimated size of a neolithic farming village; 150 as the splitting point of Hutterite settlements; 200 as the upper bound on the number of academics in a discipline’s sub-specialization; 150 as the basic unit size of professional armies in Roman antiquity and in modern times since the 16th century; and notions of appropriate company size.
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In its popularization, the research of Dunbar and others is taken as an upper bound of the number of fellow humans that an individual can view as being “truly human”. In this form, …[it] functions as a reductionistic and biologistic explanation for why humans can treat some humans with consideration and other humans indifferently or even inhumanely.[emphasis mine]
I think that Dunbar’s Number is revealing or at least acknowledging something important, but not conveying the whole of the picture for humans. In our most base and animalistic existence, this number is apparently a good one, well supported by paleo-ethno-anthro research on human group sizes.
However, the rise of Agriculture, Urbanization and Nationalization have led us over the past ten thousand years or so to larger and larger tribal identification schemes. The need for care and nurturing of larger numbers of relationships has been stretched and redefined upward time and again. The progression of human population size has not been merely evolutionary, it has been revolutionary. It is no wonder to me that our ability to view billions of other humans as totally human is something that we have to work on constantly.
And therein lies the rub. The need to work to overcome our basic limitations will necessarily preclude some of us from achieving a sense of integrated living with a number of humans that is orders of magnitude larger than our individual animalistic equipage gives us the ability to identify with. We’re only human, after all. But where animalistic equipage ends, abstraction begins. Symbolic substitutions and manipulations are not easy to grapple with, as many who have struggled with mathematics and language know. The creation, manipulation, and maintenance of “truly human” as a symbolic representation of “All Other Humans” is arguably more difficult than doing calculus or learning a foreign tongue. It requires that we supercede the linear projections of Dunbar by realizing the exponential increase that the complexity of our hyper-enlarged primate brain size makes possible.
Some of us will remain tribal, in the negative sense of the word, and be unable to grasp the oneness of humanity or attribute humane motivations to large numbers of others. It is difficult work to stay focused on the fact that in the Universe, we are all much, much, much more alike than we are different. So, tribal words and tribal identifications will persist as convenient tags and imperfect symbols of groups of “Other Humans”. And even though all of human history is written from within the tribal paradigm box, the actual utility of such an outlook is decreasing. The arbitrariness of our conventions of geographical and tribal divisions has never been more apparent than it is today as we are increasingly faced with global human needs and global human interactions.
And now, back to the arbitrary geographic designation of 90 degrees west longitude, 32 degrees north latitude and the various convenient tribal designations used to describe the human inhabitants in the vicinity of that point:
If you look closely at the state flag of Mississippi you might think something like “white Mississippians are racists” and to some degree you would be absolutely correct.
Now, what may surprise you is that rather than getting in a huff about someone who might say “white Mississipians are racists”, I take no offense – even though I am a white Mississippian, but not a racist. How can I be so un-indignant? Because I do not fully embrace the characterization of myself as a Mississippian – I see myself as a part of something larger. I do not own the concept of Mississippi and the concept of ‘Mississippian’ does not own all of me. If I chose to identify myself wholly with and within the concept of ‘Mississippian’, I would be offended by those words, I think. But I do not so choose. I claim a Global Exception – a tribal enlargement – an exercise in symbolic substitution – a projection far beyond the limitations of my animalistic neocortical tribal equipage. I am a citizen first and foremost of the Earth and I can choose to examine tribal generalizations without fear and loathing.
When specifically confronted with that statement – “white Mississippians are racists” – I first surrender my self to the prospect that I may be a racist white Mississippian. After all, I am, by happenstance, a white Mississippian. Then I choose to try to defeat any tribalistic impulse that I find inside my self, and view the statement for what it is – a tribal generalization. There may be a great deal of truth in such a statement and to dismiss it completely because of a tribal attachment would be wrong, in my opinion. If I discarded all such statements reflexively, I might throw the baby out with the bathwater in the process. We all speak in generalizations from time to time, out of force of habit or for convenience or of necessity. For me, a careful examination of my self and my tribal identifications is satyagraha for my soul and the first step to ahimsa toward the speaker of a tribal generalization. The second step is to try to understand why the speaker is saying this and to attempt to identify and understand their underlying need.
Perhaps the speaker’s underlying need is for me to recognize that all Mississippians are valuable, not just white ones. Or perhaps they need for me to recognize that they have personally suffered as a result of the actions or inactions of racist white Mississippians. Once I clarify and acknowledge this need by engaging in a discussion, I can then ask the speaker what they would like for each of us to do about the issue of racism in Mississippi and hopefully reach an agreement about doing something. Compare and contrast the possible outcomes of this approach to one in which I reflexively respond to the speaker with a simple declarative and contrary statement, such as “You are wrong, wrong, wrong, ALL white Mississippians are NOT racists, you reverse bigot you.” Whose needs would be met by that course of speaking? What agreement on positive action could possibly result from it?…
This diary is not intended as a diatribe against tribes. I belong to many tribes. By virtue of my various tribal memberships, I gain common experience with subsets of humanity. My hard-wired brain circuits are not totally useless. I try to use them for my own higher purposes. Nor is this diary intended as denial that members of a tribe have shared responsibilities and culpabilities, though I do believe there is a huge difference in those respects between self-selected tribes and happenstance tribes. Once you make such a distinction between self-selection and happenstance, you can see the internal inconsistency illustrated by the simple declarative and contrary statement in the above example: IF I view myself as a self-selected “white Mississippian”, THEN my culpability for the racism in my state is arguably larger than if I do not so self-select AND I’m more likely to respond with non-productive tribalistic defenses. By self-selecting a larger tribal identity I may avoid some culpability for the partial truth contained in the original generalization, but I do not alleviate myself of responsibility for positive action or for meeting the real human needs contained within or hidden behind the original generalization.
This diary is a diatribe against a type of tribalism wherein one totally surrenders one’s self-definition to a tribe and one’s self to tribalistic response mechanisms. I have never bought into such tribalisms, at least not for long. (Emerson and Thoreau were my first literary philosophical heroes and I’ve tried to practice their interesting skepticisms. If you haven’t read Thoreau and understood him, at least Walden and Civil Disobedience, you are not a real American. ;p )
This diary is also intended as a request to acknowledge the role that tribalisms and tribal instincts play in our lives and in our discussions of politics. The first step toward a cure for overly strong tribalistic tendencies is to know your tribes and tribalisms by whatever means of self-examination you choose. If you would like to find out more about your own hard-wired prejudices and tribal instincts, I invite you to go to the Project Implicit website and take a few of the research tests. You might find out something about yourself. Then the second step is to become an exception. And learn that being tribeless, even in your mind, is very lonely business – like living alone on the side of a pond miles away from the city for a year or two. But it’s good for your soul. I promise. And in the solitude of tribelessness, you may find that your tribe is THE human tribe now, and it is no longer based solely on geographic happenstance and convention. As a result of thinking this way, you may someday find yourself in jail whilst the rest of your tribe carries on in the name of tribalistic responses. The third step? Claim your exception freely, and live it. WE, all of humanity, are the tribe and we are also the exception. As far as we know, we are a rare and special flower of the Universe itself.
I now pass the BooTribe Talking Stick to you.
She said this way was to sit quietly around whatever campfire one came upon, and wait until someone passed you the Talking Stick. Until then, it was wise to listen well with the ears of the heart, to the one who held it. In this way, one could hear their truest song.
When the Talking Stick came into your hands, you could sing your own song, and the other would hear it with their hearts ears. In such a way, many songs can be learned.
She said as we learn to hear and share the songs of others, we are drawn to hear more, and the desire for a bridge between us is born, to be fed and nurtured well for the good of all people. [deep bow to scribe the teacher, and to scribe‘s teacher]
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And thanks for the link to Project Implicit. Veeeeery Eeeenteresting. So far, I’ve done two of the tests. Apparently I show little to no preference between gay and straight people, and have a slight preference for Ronald Reagan over George Bush.
I’d say those are both pretty accurate, but I can tell you that Reagan over Bush isn’t necessarily a complement to Ronald!
In spite of the fact that I have always considered my birth on American soil to American parents nothing more than blind luck, it has only been the last couple of years or so that I’ve really started grabbing hold of the idea that the lines we draw on our maps are quite irrelevant for most issues of substance.
Thanks for the compliment.
I have been in the computing industry for many years and I took the test at the Project Implicit website about microsoft software vs. opensource software. I had a slightly more difficult time putting microsoft and good things into the same category, but not enough for the test to register it. I was pronounced unbiased on this issue by the test. Truthfully, I am pretty much unbiased when it comes to software manufacturers if their products work, but I have some negative feelings about Microsoft’s total lack of business ethics over the years and the resulting near monopoly of desktop computing software. So, I think the test was fairly accurate.
As for my results on some of the other tests, I think I’ll keep those private, but I applaud you pursuing them. I don’t think it is as important what your results are as it is to know them and act to improve them if you find any results you are not happy about.
Ditto on the birthplace “blind luck”, although I would have to conclude that it is even more than “blind” luck, as at the time I began to grow in my mother’s womb, eventually to become a fully formed and sentient being, I had no eyes!
thanks for a thoughtful diary on an important subject. Personally I’m skeptical of these “hard-wired” theories. There’s always a reigning metaphor for the brain–it’s clockworks, it’s a switchboard, it’s a computer–which people take literally for awhile before they move on to the next one.
Defining what “hard-wired” could possibly mean is still easier that defining what “tribalism” could mean. Let’s just say that we became human in a world of small groups, working and living together and very much embedded in the natural world. What that has to do with feelings of membership and kinship in larger groups, or categories, in an artificial world anestheitzed to sustaining nature, is far from simple or certain.
I too am fascinated by where we get our identity in relation to family, location, etc., and how we experience our identies internally vs. how we are perceived in relation to categories, which often change. What “white” means now in America is far different from what it meant in my grandparents’ day, for example, at least where I came from.
As for widening our perception of “us,” this is a lifelong process, involving experience and imagination. Some people can’t get past the past that precedes them, and some people can’t wait for the future they imagine. Some people can’t deal with someone from the next valley. Others can’t wait to dance with a Klingon. In fact, in practice, it’s music and sex that breaks the boundariess for those with limited imaginations but other points of entry…
Thanks for your thoughtful comments.
As for ‘hard-wired’, the term is obviously not quite right when used on the dynamical biological systems in our brains. However, unless we take dualism as Universal Truth, on faith, we must conclude that the brain holds the keys to consciousness and everything that implies. Instinct, motor control, sensation, all of these things have been mapped out and identified as functions of certain portions of a ‘normal’ brain. Notwithstanding the fact that injured brains can sometimes re-map these functions to different areas, and perhaps even because we know that they can do so, I think we can conclude that there is a natural ‘architecture’ in place that will tend to yield thoughts and feelings, at least at an instinctual level, that will further our survival in the environment in which we evolved.
Widening our perception of ‘us’ is a task that is to some extent a natural development that comes with growing up. And to some extent it comes from experiencing others as we grow throughout life. However, there is at least a logical argument to be made that once you reach the limits of ‘all of humanity’, you’ve pretty much finished the job, and are prepared to meet anyone as a possible friend…. (I happen to think that ‘us’ may include some sort of intelligent life somewhere out there in the Universe that we haven’t communicated with and maybe never will. I think ‘us’ includes all of the life forms on our planet, to some extent, though mosquitoes are questionable.)
In the final analysis, the questions you have raised are indeed hard to answer. It’s damned interesting to try, though. 🙂
btw, I assure you that down here in Mississippi, ‘white’ still means what it used to.
Where there was more variation, “white” was a more relative term. My Italian grandparents wouldn’t have been considered white just about anywhere in their youth. And in parts of PA where I’m from, even the pale slovak side of the family was questionable to some people–the expression (I’m told) was “not quite white.”
Yes, the brain is chemicals, electricity, but so is the universe. Maybe we vibrate to the tune of a cosmic string, plucked by a thought across the world. We still have a lot to learn about what causes what. I try not to get trapped in too narrow either/or explanations. Reminds me of the comedy routine about two aliens passing by earth. One of them mentions that the beings down there are made of meat. The other doesn’t believe it. They don’t think, do they? Sure. They’re thinking meat? They’re MEAT? It does sound pretty implausible.
Nice. I’d like to believe that. It may be true. Reductionism doesn’t answer all my questions, either, but it is a good place to start, I think.
While I personally don’t care what anyone’s skin color is anymore, there are many many folks down here in MS who would not consider a dark Italian to be white. Think Archie Bunker from the All in the Family TV show…. Epithets for everyone. There is some improvement, though, and those partocularly egregious types are beginning to disappear, even down here.
Wow, fascinating topic.
After searching for my “tribe” for 65 years now, I have concluded I am “tribeless” and probably always really was. The only affiliation that fits for me now is as one of “all my relations”: ie all living things on this planet, and yes, beyond it, too.
I did identify wholeheartedly as a Proud Patriotic American through my childhood, in the time after WWII,before I was old enough to separate propaganda from truth and illusion.
But I’ve never lived within any kind of “tribe” that did not exhibit a need to judge and exclude others as somehow “lesser beings”, and something about that just always felt “off” to me, even as a small child.
Refusing to self identify with any “tribal grouping” is not an easy path in a world where everyone is mush more comfortable knowing exactly “who and what” someone is. There’s all these “boxes” and “labels” set up for this purpose, so people can decide, (based on the writing on these common boxes,) whether you are acceptable to them, or not. I hate boxes, and I abhor labels, thus, I tend to make people uncomfortable often.
There is a price to be paid from not self affiliating with a “tribe”. For isntance, I can no longer turn away from the suffering of people anywhere, anymore. I have to learn how to see it, know it, live with it, do what I can to help, without giving into helpless dispair over all the suffering.
And yes, it can be lonely. But if one can find others who also can’t abide boxes or labels or strong, exclusionary tribal identification , it is possible to not feel all alone, either.
The benefits of being “tribeless” are also clear to me: I do not have to spend en energy or time defending or promoting any tribe.
I am free to associate with whomever I wish, whenever I wish.
I learn so much from knowing a lot of people from a lot of different tribes: my perspectives are expanded so much more, than if I only saw the world through “tribal eyes”.
Great diary! Recommended.
Tribalists throw stones, literally and figuratively. Not self-identifying can be dangerous, sometimes. When your local fellow humans are ‘protecting their tribe’ you might actually get hit with something if you try to reason with them. Or you might get conscripted to serve in an utterly useless war, or who knows what else. And then there is the responsibility that comes with knowing that we can do better than drop bombs on other humans somewhere and seemingly care nothing about the lives and deaths of billions of our Universe companions.
I feel tribeless, for the most part, but I do enjoy being a BooTriber. It is not fun when we fight, but otherwise it is fascinating and informing to be here. Especially with folks like you around, writing great diaries and sharing your insights with us…
Thanks for the diary, blueneck. There is much to ponder here. I was fortunate to grow up in a community where my friends parents encompassed a wide cultural diversity from dirt poor to wealthy and little formal education to artists, university professors and administrators. As a kid, I moved back and forth between these widely diverse homes and barely noticed the differences then.
One rich kid’s family had a big swimming pool, which was the only one for miles around in those days. Many poor kids had a running creek in the back yard, which to us was just as much fun – maybe more, since there were no rules of play for the creeks other than our imaginations.
At eighteen, I found myself living in the third world, admittedly somewhat insulated from the general population as it was on a US military base, but the experience was still quite an eye-opener for a midwestern boy.
Perhaps some of my early exposures to diversity served to dilute my “tribal sense” just a bit. Really interesting topic and food for thought;-)
When I was fifteen, I spent the summer with a group of about fifty boys my own age from around the U.S. and the world. Experiences like this one and the ones you describe can be important ‘doors of perception’ for us, and change our lives forever. What I can’t understand is how some people can travel a lot and still remain so psychologically insular about their places of origin and their particular world views. Then again, wherever you go, there you are, right?
well, well, well, very interesting blueneck. I must say if everyone knew you like some of us knows you, this is not just exceptional but normal for your thoughts on things. YOu certainly are a deep thinker…:o) Enjoyed each of the links and enjoy listening to you about your thoughts on things. hugs
PS: guess I am one of those wanderers that have moved around in their life. My tribe has done that and split into other tribes with roots, is all I can say…;o) but then again, you know me…
Thanks for your kind words.
Some of us are born into opportunities that others have to work harder to find. And I’m not speaking of financial opportunities, but opportunities of the heart and mind. I am the very fortunate beneficiary of lots of hard work done by many who have heaped their knowledge and training upon me. Wandering and wondering are parts of me, too, sometimes excruciatingly so. Deep thinking is not always correct thinking, and I appreciate your encouragement on these particular thoughts of mine.
Hugs back to you, my friend.
Exceptional diary blueneck. This is the kind of thing that I find really enlightening on the frontier of my life right now. I love thinking and learning about it all.
I took several of the tests at the Project Implicit site (had to take a break, but I’ll go back and do more later). Since the results and what is in my head don’t match, I think I’ve got some work to do. It makes me think that a willingness to be open to our tribalism and actually doing so are two different things. The later seems to take more work. And I wonder if there are ways to move that along a little faster than I have been doing???
Thank you for your compliment. I hoped to spur a thought or two about how we set ourselves up, individually and collectively, for conflict. Even here in the pond, we have seen ripples of discontent that emanate from our fierce tribal protection responses that we really need to dismantle and flush down the toilet as the useless detritus that they are.
There are many of those tests at Project Implicit that can help us to understand ourselves better. I applaud you for pursuing them. As you say, it can be disturbing to find out that we are not quite as perfect in our responses as we imagine we are in our minds. This discovery alone is worth mountains. So many of us think that “Why, no, of course I’m not a bigot.” And yet, our underlying training and perhaps our natural human responses say otherwise. I am under no illusion that I have succeeded in wiping out the last vestiges of prejudice and tribalism within myself. I only hope to be further down the road tomorrow than I am today. And that requires effort, right?
I wish I could reveal a great shortcut, but alas, there is none that I know of. I think though, that for me, part of being more successful in this particular venture is just learning in general to quieten down my limbic system responses. Any feelings of general anxiety and nervousness and hyper-vigilance will put a person into a more reactive state, so meditation of some sort, regular and/or when needed, is a boon to all pursuits of the mind and heart, I believe.
meditation of some sort, regular and/or when needed, is a boon to all pursuits of the mind and heart, I believe.
That is such a wonderful affirmation to me – thanks blueneck!!
For me, the objective is to achieve an integrated, walking state of meditation as I go about the business of interacting with the world. I don’t achieve that, of course, but I do try. And when I can have a few moments of wakeful, integrated living, I am self-satisfied, beyond normal, I think.
Of course, allowing oneself to be aware of but not controlled by external forces is the toughest task of life, and I find that interacting with folks like you and the rest of our BooTribe helps me to effectuate my plan for living wakefully.
If anything I have said is a positive affirmation to you, I am happy for it. We all have need to appreciate and to be appreciated. I am in your debt.
As this diary begins its slide down from the recommended list, I would like to take a moment to thank all of you.
As I remember the past year+ of my life, I find that it has been enriched and enlarged in numerous ways by this community, the BooTribe.
Some of those that no longer post here regularly or at all have made huge impacts on me. And those of you who have come here and found a home have contributed mightily as well.
I’m not thinking that this place is perfect, but it is a hell of a good place to hang out, for me. I enjoy the mix of opinions and the excellent writing and thinking behind almost every diary and comment.
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Thanks again. You are all exceptional people.
Blueneck – I wanted to let you know that I have been following this diary rather closely, thinking about what you have written, checking the links, sampling the Project Implicit, following the comments, noticing the words you have chosen, observing your responses throughout the day. “Caring” is the word that comes to me to describe you. Thank you for all your lessons.
Wow, thank YOU for caring, tampopo. Your words to me are inspiring. I hope that you experience these words as caring, also, for they are intended to be.
I know that I slip up often enough and I make lots of mistakes. But nothing can fail but a try, right? So I try harder to do better, to reduce the negativity that emanates from me during my weaker unconsidered moments. I have had some of those moments, here, online over this year+, but all in all I hope to have made more of a positive impact than a negative one.
If I have made even a small positive difference for any one at all today, I am happy to have spent the energy.
Peace be with you and with our tribe.
Well said. Reminds me of some things I tried to say a few days ago, but far less eloquently than you do here.
Thanks James, I wanted to say all of this a week ago, but couldn’t get the words to work out right. My skill has never been in the quick wit department. Oh, I wish that it were… I never think of the great comeback or the ‘just so’ comment until days after I needed to have said it. Words don’t really roll off my tongue. I did spend some time getting this as good as I could make it and I appreciate your compliment.
I have also appreciated many of your thoughts and comments in the various diaries in which you have chosen to communicate.
There are a few things about becoming a member of a group that have always puzzled me. For example, children of immigrants grow up with an accent determined by their community or peers, not their parents.
This leads to the second point. The south has had a large influx of people from elsewhere over the past several decades. Have these people (or their children) become “southerners” or has the society become more cosmopolitan as a result of the migration.
Another possibility is that the new arrivals self-segregate and thus there are pockets of different political/economic/cultural groups. This would imply that the newcomers retain their old ways and don’t have much affect on the older residents and vice versa.
Personally and anecdotally, I’d have to say that to some small extent, certain groups of immigrants have made some gains toward ‘assimilation’, but the vast majority have been forced to or are choosing to remain segregated. The forces that act on new immigrants could be interpreted as a continuance of old ways, but perhaps there is more to the story, I’m not sure. However, the core of the white power structure here is still in control and is still actively denying opportunities to outgroups.
On the other hand, many young people are starting to discard these old ways. I see a lot more interactions of a friendly and personal nature between youths of all colors these days than when I was younger. It seems to be becoming more of a class-based society than a race-based one, though class and race are still strongly linked in many cases.
What an outstanding, thoughtful diary! Thank you.
You are welcome, Arcturus. I value your opinion.