Gadfly is Marty Aussenberg, a columnist for the alternative weekly Memphis Flyer (where this story is cross-posted). Marty is a former SEC enforcement official, currently in private law practice in Memphis, Tennessee.
Isn’t it amazing how principle collapses in the face of personal experience. Let me give you some examples.
The other night, during the debate between the Republican presidential candidates, two of the participants, Giuliani and Romney, advocated using torture if it might avoid a terrorist attack. John McCain, who is a hard-boiled conservative on most of the bellwether issues, and as (if not more) gung-ho on the war in Iraq as any living human being (remember, he’s going to follow Osama “to the gates of hell” ), spoke forcefully against the use of torture . Why? Because he himself had been the victim of torture some 40 years ago when he was a prisoner of war in Vietnam.
So, for him, invading and occupying a country, killing its people and going against the will of the majority of the American people who want to end the war, is OK, right up until it involves something he’s had personal experience with that he didn’t like. Then his ideology melts in the face of his personal experience.
This follows a familiar pattern, particularly for conservative ideologues. Here’s another example: abortion.
Hard-core right wingers (read: Christian conservatives) oppose abortion, for any reason, for any person. Many of them oppose abortion even if carrying the fetus to term threatens the life of the mother. And yet, studies show that many of these same conservative ideologues are apparently willing to look the other way when the crisis of an unwanted pregnancy strikes home. Many so-called born-agains and other abortion opponents (e.g., Catholics) won’t hesitate to abort a fetus when it affects their own lifestyle .
Ditto for stem cell research. Ronald Reagan was nothing if not a staunch conservative. He hued to the party line on all the bellwether conservative issues, including those revolving around the “sanctity of life.” And yet, who is now the biggest proponent of stem cell research, one of the religious right’s (read: Republican) bêtes noires? Why, Nancy Reagan , of course. As she watched her husband suffer the ravages of Alzheimer’s, it became clear to her that stem cell research presented the best chance of finding a cure for the disease. She suddenly recognized that the sanctity of her husband’s life was more important than a few un-implanted embryos.
Gay marriage provides yet another example. Same sex unions, and, indeed, gayness itself, are big bugaboos for the Republican party. But when your own daughter comes out and announces she’s a lesbian, is living with her lesbian lover, and is going to have a baby that will be raised by (horrors!) the happy lesbian couple, that’s another matter. Just ask Dick Cheney about that .
The same goes for the whole Terri Schiavo episode. Conservatives were up in arms that she would be allowed to die. Bill Frist, you may recall, famously diagnosed her as non-vegetative, based on his review of a video tape. Yet, it surfaced that, of all people, Tom Delay, one of the most vocal of the “save Terry” politicians in Washington, had, some years earlier
decided to withdraw life support from his own father who was injured in a freak back yard accident. Just another example of the old “do as I say, not as I do” mentality, I suppose.
And finally, you may remember when House Speaker Pelosi went to the Middle East and made the unpardonable, and, according to some right-wing ideologues, treasonous mistake of meeting with a representative of one of the “Axis of Evil.” Then, of course, when our much- vaunted Secretary of State went to the same area, guess what: she herself met with the “evildoers” .
Ethical/moral relativism? Hypocrisy? Maybe, but it just proves the old saying, particularly attractive, it would appear, to conservatives: it all depends on whose ox is being gored.
Going back to McCain’s stand on torture: don’t get me wrong; I’m delighted that McCain can stand up for something he knows is wrong because he’s experienced it. I just wonder whether he would be as vigorous a proponent of our policy in Iraq if, instead of having been a U.S. fighter pilot in Viet Nam, he had been a villager in My Lai.
Great article.
This is the fundamental difference between liberals and conservatives (if those labels mean anything anymore), IMHO: Those who are more likely to lean towards the liberal end of the spectrum are more easily able to empathize with others. So we don’t need to go through something personally to understand (at least to some degree) how it would affect us and how we would feel. Conservatives are unable or unwilling to empathize properly with others and so can’t understand how something affects those others unless they go through the experience personally.
Excellent observation. ” As long as it doesn’t affect them personally”, including making them feel uncomfortable.
This has got to be the mentality of the “entitled”.
calvin is pleased to see gadfly at work once again. Always a good read. I know a lot of GOPers. They all think that way. I could go back to an extremely conservative GOPer state senator who touted himself as the only potato farmer with a Princeton degree. He was very much against public school services for individuals with disabilities until he had a granddaughter with Downs Syndrome. All of a sudden, he was a convert from saying it was the job of the “church” to it was a public responsibility.
Another area that Republics fall down on is implementation. Give them a problem and they’ll give you a solution. Their job is over. Let the little people worry about getting it down at the street level. Well, if the answers were so obvious, don’t you think that it would already have been solved? No concept of reality. Isolated. Tunnel-vision. Selfish. Etc., etc., ad nauseum.
Well, if the answers were so obvious, don’t you think that it would already have been solved?
That’s a common problem with those conservatives who sneer at the affection of liberals for experts and grey areas. They prefer to see the world as a simple place without stopping to consider that, if all of the world’s problems were so simple, they’d have been solved millennia ago.
A great many of them probably think the world has been screwed up by liberal intellectuals, too, as if there was such a thing in appreciable numbers before the mid-20th century.
I just wonder whether he would be as vigorous a proponent of our policy in Iraq if, instead of having been a U.S. fighter pilot in Viet Nam, he had been a villager in My Lai.
fly-boys..raining death from the sky and returning to a nice cushy billet and the officers’ club.
he’d have a very different approach to war if he’d been on the ground in Nam…l would hope he wouldn’t be quite so open to the continuation of the current occupation policies and their consequences…but..a hypocrites’ pandering knows no bounds.
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I’m glad I’m not the only person who noticed the inherent disconnect between the tough-as-nails war veteran image and the reality that McCain was a freaking pilot and not crawling through the bush with the infantry.
I see that dada and eodell have beat me to it. perhaps if McCain’s experience included crawling through the rice paddies, watching your buddies get blown to pieces with booby traps, gotten pinned down in a fire-fight or some of the other aspects of a “grunt” he would have a slightly different opinion. Another Republican who was a “grunt”, Chuck Hagel, talks from his experience also.
I love your username. It’s been awhile since I’ve read The Silmarillion, time to put it back in the queue 🙂
I think this is an extremely important concept you’ve described. And while I think liberals usually tend to do much better on this one, it certainly pays to keep vigilant to where we are blinded by our own lack of experience.
As an example, I remember years ago in graduate school, I never paid much attention to the problem of racial profiling. If I’d really thought about it and been honest, I might have said that too much was being made of this concern. And I would have considered myself a liberal at the time. That’s because neither myself, nor anyone I knew, had experienced it.
Then I had a friend who was Hawaiian, but looked Mexican. He was picked up by security at least once a week as he was crossing the courtyard in his apartment. All of the sudden, racial profiling became a very real and important issue to me.
I think we all have our blind spots and need to be open to where they are.