It’s not easy to write about the difficulties facing Afghanistan right now. I don’t want to leave the impression that I believe we should have stayed there. I don’t think we should be indifferent to what’s going on either, but we have to accept that our options and influence are limited.

It’s just hard to watch.

The latest tragedy is that female middle- and high school students can no longer go to school. Try to imagine if that suddenly happened in America. Paired with this, almost all female municipal workers in Kabul have been fired. Those that remain either have critical expertise that cannot immediately be replaced or work in gender-specific roles, like bathroom attendants. The same pattern is happening throughout the country.

The Taliban believe that they’re being very religious by imposing these rules. That strikes me as ridiculous, but more importantly, it’s not something Afghanistan can afford. There are already food shortages, and they’re creating unemployment. Even if the women’s jobs are handed over to Taliban fighters, that’s a severe dumbing down of government services and it’s a very bad look for attracting foreign aid.

What the Taliban should be focused on is rooting out corruption. They really have a mandate to do two things: create peace and security, and replace a government that was rotten to the core. If they focus on those two things, they’ll have some room and space to govern and the country might begin to recover from decades of war. But they’re still too similar to their 1990’s iteration that imposed a rigid and medieval version of Islam that cannot exist in the modern world without insane levels of coercion and violence.

Afghanistan cannot afford more strife, and it can’t afford the brain drain that is already taking place in response to the Taliban’s takeover. Now they’re going to stop educating women and girls, and remove them from the workforce. That’s obviously going to make the economy less productive.

To be clear, this is wrong from a human rights perspective and in a sense nothing further needs to be added. But women aren’t the only ones who will suffer. It’s going to make a humanitarian crisis worse and Afghanistan will continue to be a miserable place that creates problems for others, and not just those in their immediate vicinity.

I wish we could have prevented this, but in some ways we helped bring it about. There are still things we can pursue that might help on the margins, but mostly we just have to watch. And that’s not a good feeling.