Welcome Wagon, tell us, Part 12

Seems like another diary is full, for us at least, because prior to our recent influx diary totals rarely reached 50 comments as we just did not have that many posters.  Now we do and the diaries are climbing to numbers we have not seen before.
Thanks to all newbies and oldies for this great work.
As you can see we have worked really hard on this site to make it a homey place where friends can gather and discuss things and issues in a civilized manner and we sure do.
I am just so proud of our members, you have all done such a great job of making the newer ones at home.
I am curious how many of you became trusted users in the last few days.  
So talk on and party on and get to know each other.
FYI, I am 62, mother (5) and grandmother(4), living in SoCal.
I have been an antique dealer, furniture refinisher, craftswoman, tole painter, nanny, etc. in the past and now I am semi retired and pretty much a full time blogger.

In case you are interested this is a pic of me at Christmas 2004.

This is one of the pieces I tole painted:

Welcome Wagon, can you believe part 11

I am getting this diary up since the numbers are climbing on the last one and next thing you know it will be even higher.
What a lot of fun we’ve had in this last week with our welcoming new members.  Hope some of you have had a chance to relax and enjoy our great site here.
Gardening diary is coming this Sat. so get your stories and pics ready..
Seems we all have a lot to say to each other so keep on talking and mingling.
Oldsters on this site jump in whenever you like and post whatever you like.
I must have given out a gazillion 4’s in the last week, but I’m sure there are many more to come.
See my info page for all the past newbie diaries.


Have some strawberries from me.  

Here is a poem I wrote in 1985

Life’s little moments grow,
How I don’t know.
Out of bits of this and pieces of that perhaps!
I want to sow and I want to grow,
All the little seeds of my life,
Pull the weeds and till the soil
And in the fall reap the harvest once sowed.
Treasures past and moments gone,
Like rivers flowing to the sea,
Become one with God’s great eternity.
The sun arises and sets each day,
And my life begins and ends that way.
To light my life with living full
and leave but not a deed undone,

that is my quest,
and not to miss this moment lest,
It leaves my life with emptiness
That is why, these moments with you I treasure,
For soon they will be gone,

with the flick of a feather.
Would that I could hold them close to me,
Clutch them tightly to my breast,
But alas, I can only hold them forever,
Resting in my memory.

Welcome Wagon, tell us about you, Part 10

Oh my!  the numbers are still climbing and the diaries are filling up so here goes part 10.
A big giant welcome to all new members and all old members that have never posted.
It seems that its gotten entirely too hard for me to welcome all of you so I have deputized several other members, shirlstars, Oui, Man Egree and Zander to serve on this committee and welcome you.
Oldsters on this site are welcome to jump in and post their own info or help to welcome newbies.  This is how we get to know each other and it is a tradition on this site.
Just to let you know; visit this diary and you will find a lot about how we function:
http://www.boomantribune.com/?op=displaystory;sid=2005/6/8/164431/7125

And this diary from shirlstars:
http://www.boomantribune.com/?op=displaystory;sid=2005/6/8/235456/3577
Just to let you know we are a real community here with a lot of love and caring for each other.  All are respected who live in this town and all newcomers are treated with the respect we have for our family.
Well that’s enough for me, must get this diary up so you can start commenting.
Even if you have posted before don’t be shy, others may have not seen it so post again.  
Lets have fun and let’s party….
Bring pics and food and drinks, Ok..

Previous welcome diaries can be found on my info page.
Go on, start posting!!!!!Hugs to all!!!!!

Welcome Wagon, Tell Us About you Part 9

(*Update new diary part 10 is now available to post, welcome and have fun*)

Welcome to Booman Tribune.  We have a tradition on this site of welcoming newcomers and asking them to tell us a bit about them.
With the recent large influx of DK members things are a bit hectic at the moment, but soon all will settle down and run smoothly.  
I would like to point out to new members who have brought this subject up, we already have an established family and community here, most of it built on cross over DK’zers.  So you don’t need to rebuild a DK community here, we would like to keep it a Booman Community and for you to join in that.
In the months that this site has been up, we have worked very hard to make this a very special site and I think we have succeeded.
I realize that many of you are angry and upset over Dk, and I am hoping that will subside and we can get back to the business and fun that we have here.  Since many of us were not involved in the whole DK business, please, enough of the rehashing.  We are a mellow site and get along very well.  We are equally passionate about the issues as any site on the internet, but we discuss issues with respect to each other and without attacking each other.  Problems have come up and we have resolved them as individuals and as a group without hostility for the most part.
Now back to getting to know you and us, please tell us about you, and we will tell you about us.
Shirlstars and Zander are cohosts of this diary with me as we want to make all newcomers welcome here with a personal note whenever possible.  Lately it has just been too much for one person, (me) to do.  I do appreciate all their help.
To oldsters on this site, you too can wade in here and give a hand and tell newbies about you as well.
Relax, have some fun, talk to each other….
Here are the most recent Tell Us Diaries if you care to check them out.

http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/7/173735/5850

http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/7/94711/77729

http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/6/162047/9358

New Rays of Hope /Shoulder to shoulder

On sunday I put up a diary Rays of Hope.  We do a lot of those kind of diaries here.  Trying to look on the positive side and not the negative.  That is my particular bent, you might say.

Now with the big influx of Kossaks, I feel all these rays of hope entering this arena and boy do I feel we are going to do something grand with all these rays floating about.

I keep thinking of the words Shoulder to Shoulder mentioned on this site several times in the last few days.  You know that was the song of the suffragettes.  Shoulder to shoulder we stand.  We have a great heritage as women and it seems we still need to stand together.  What might we accomplish??
Here is a little about the Suffragettes movement:

http://www.cjbooks.demon.co.uk/suffrage.htm

THE SUFFRAGETTES….WOMEN’S EPIC FIGHT FOR THE RIGHT TO VOTE
The fight for the right for women to vote was a violent revolution for the rights of equal citizenship led by Emmiline Pankhurst and her fellow Suffragettes. The following is a brief account of their fight for equal rights, and the women who were part of that sometimes bloody and violent fight.

  In Manchester on October 10 1903, Emmiline Pankhurst’s patience finally ran out. Tired of being pleasant to MP’s in order to get them to give women the vote, she called for more militant action. ‘Deeds, not words’ was to be the motto of the Women’s Social and Political Union. (W.S.P.U.) Emmiline expected a fight but little did she envisage the violent and often savage struggle that was to follow on the basis of that motto. Her movement was confined to independent women only, with no party affiliations. They were women of principle and pursued their goal with great passion, determination and fortitude.

They were going to need all these attributes and more before their struggle was over.

On May 19, 1905, a deputation of ten women went to speak to the Prime Minister. Amongst those women was Emily Davies LL.D., who was seventy-six years old. It was Emily who handed the first women’s suffrage petition to the Prime Minister. In return all they received was some advice about ‘being patient’. This was not the result they wanted. They wanted to be taken seriously.

What parallels can be drawn between then and now, I wonder.  
What are your thoughts and do you see the rays of light and hope I do.  

Welcome Wagon, tell us about you, part 8

The new members seem to be pouring in and time for another diary.  
I have been trouble even loading this site, anyone else.
So maybe by now you know we have a custom on this site of this tell us diary.  If you want to look at any of the old ones they can be found on my info page.
The diaries from yesterday and today are at:
http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/7/94711/77729

http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/6/162047/9358

Shirlstars is cohosting these welcome diaries with me as I simply cannot keep up with them, clicking all the 4’s alone has been hard.

We are trying to give everyone we can a personal welcome, but if we don’t I’m really sorry, but we will catch up with you all at some point.
Shirl usually brings refreshments to these parties, but she has been a little tied up lately with all the commenting, but maybe she will bring some champagne and snacks.  If not feel free to bring you own.
Oldsters post here to, newbies may not know you.  Also I would appreciate any help welcoming newbies.
Have fun on this dairy, and above all tell us about you.

Big Welcome New Members (tell us) part 7(poll)

9UPDATE; NEW DIARY OPENED UP, WELCOME WAGON, POST THERE, THANKS….)

I was just checking the previous ‘tell us’ diary and it is so big and hard to load now that I decided to put up a new diary.  
So continue your talking and welcoming here.
We are so happy to have all you new members and you have really made this ‘joint jump’ in the last two days.
I am having a hard time just keeping up with all the comments, and by the way, if you haven’t already, check out the recent comment tab above.
At this point I think it would behoove us older members to write something about us as the newer members will not likely trudge through all the old diaries to find out something.  Therefore, even if you have written about yourself before, introduce yourself again.  
Booman and Susanhu also, many know you from your work, but they don’t know your personal stories so please introduce yourselves to our newer members.  Then they will ‘love’ you both just like us oldsters do.
Have some more fun here on this diary and if you are brave enough post a pic of yourself of your family, pets, gardens, whatever.
Have fun and have a great day!!
This Diary is hosted by Shirlstars and Diane101.
Lets do a new gender count too, with poll.

BTW this is the link to yesterday’s tell us about you diary:
http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/6/162047/9358

Home Birth vs. Hospital Birth

Yesterday on my Tell Us About You diary the subject of home births came up and I thought it might be a good idea to continue the discussion in a separate diary.
I had two home births, one at age 37 and the last at age 39.  Having 3 previous births in the hospital I was absolutely determined to have these two at home.  I had tried to have a home birth for my third child and couldn’t locate a midwife, so I reluctantly went to the hospital.  That turned out to be my worst delivery ever, my husband was shut out of the delivery room by a Nurse Cratchett type, but I was told he did not want to be there.  He was told I did not want him there.  He was so angry and couldn’t understand why I shut him out, that he left the hospital and waited in the parking lot, not returning until long after I had given birth.
For my part, I felt very let down that he was not at the birth and then even more so that he was not there after.    You want to talk about being depressed.  When we finally got together and compared stories I was plenty mad at the hospital and the nurse and raised a stink.  But it was too late for us to have those beautiful memories, that we really wanted.  
We were even among the first groups to go to natural childbirth classes and were fully prepared to both participate.
Problem was the staff of the hospital had not caught up with the trend of the times (70’s) and just didn’t like men in the birthing room.  That is something I could never understand.  Hey we made the baby together, we should be together when it was born, to give just one of the many reasons.
So when I became pregnant with my fourth child, you can imagine there would be no way I would take a chance on my husband not being there and luckily I found a midwife who then delivered by 5th child as well.
I am sure that you all have your stories as well, so lets talk about this and us older folks can share the path we tread so that you younger ones could have things we did not, such as men in the delivery room.  The establishment was very much against such a thing, but women prevailed…..
So, what’s your story…
Also there are many issues to discuss around this subject, such as what is the status of home birthing in states.  I think it is harder now to have a home birth in California, anyone have info on that?

Welcome all new members, tell us about you

(Update, Tues: This diary is much too big, please see new diary and post there, hurry now, mojo is waiting.)
http://www.boomantribune.com/story/2005/6/7/94711/77729

In view of all that is going on at DK and the sudden influx of new members I am prompted to put a new diary that we customarily have here at Booman Trib.
In this case I will ask old member to say why they like it here as well as invite new members to tell us about them and perhaps why you came to this site.

I don’t have much to say other than welcome and lets have a good old get to know you fest.

You can find previous diaries of Tell us about You by going to my info page.

Have some fun, OK!
BTW please also visit other diaries including my Meet my African Friend diary.  

Meet My African Friend, Pastorlincoln

I would like to introduce to you my friend PastorLincoln, native of Uganda, living in Kampalla.  Oddly enough I first received a email from Lincoln the day after I received my first email from ‘Diva’.  He had seen my name on the penpal site and wrote to see if I would be his email pal.  That was in November of 2004 and since that time we have exchanged many emails and pictures and became friends.. After a short time he started to call me his American Mom Diane and I called him my African Son Lincoln.   So in some ways I received into my family two new members in the same week.  
After he described to me his very dire situation and his apparent hopelessness for any kind of successful future I began to think what I could do to help him improve his circumstances.  Sending money was not an option for me, other than a small gift, so I had to think of other ways to help.

Since my husband and I both had previously started small businesses with very little capital outlay, I suggested to Lincoln to look around for small enterprises that he could start a business with.  I gave him some very detailed instructions on what to look for, how to assess viability, how to look at a business, possibly forming a co-op business with friends/family where each would contribute and each would receive. Etc.  
At the time he felt very stuck for lack of completed education, which was not financially available and I urged him to continue his education on his own if need be, there was no reason to stop for lack of a school. I felt that a business from which he and others could draw income would help more than anything I could think of.  
So time went on and last week I received an email from him asking for help in getting a business started.  I do not have the financial means, even tho the costs we are talking about could be as low as $65.00, I just do not have much disposable income.  I sent him an email back saying that if he was willing I would put up a diary on Booman asking for feedback, suggestions and possible participation in a type of mentoring project or perhaps direct communication with Lincoln or financial sponsorship.  He agreed to my telling his story and using his full name.
I asked Lincoln to send me a short bio (that I could include) and what type of business he has considered and here is his response:

My names are Lincoln Joel Nsubuga, I am a Ugandan. I was born on 26th/March/1973 and all along I grew up with my mother. I come from a family of seven where by am the fifth born. I studied up to senior six which is advanced level of studies and I sat for the Uganda Advanced Certificate of Education Exams for a Certificate and when the results came back I was not able to continue with my studies for a diploma or degree because my father had even retired before me completing senior six and I tried to contact my Aunty to help for school fees and she never bothered to help even though she had a lot of money working with Action Aid – Uganda. I tried many other people and no one dared help and I said let me start the real journey of a man in this world and I had put the Lord Jesus Christ ahead of me who gave me hope even in the very difficult times.

My life to the present has been a struggle and sometimes I do think that am not worthy enough to be in the world but then I remember that God doesn’t want me to think that way. My brothers and sisters don’t bother about me but I don’t hate them, I do love them all and I pray for them everyday. I want to start a small business project which can help me and those who are in need. From my hard life, I don’t want to see others passing through the same.

I am a Muganda by tribe and I come from Buganda Kingdom which is tribe from Bantu tribal group which entered the Interacustrine region from the Congo Basin into Uganda. I do speak Luganda as my native language and also English as an International language. I learnt English particularly during my primary school at Nakivubo primary school which is located in the city center of Kampala.

My mother also retired as a mid-wife nurse after working with Mulago Hospital which is the biggest government Hospital for 25 years.

I do stay in Makindye in the residence of my mother but in the one of the rooms attached to the main house of my mother. Makindye town is 3-kms away from Kampala the city center and Kampala is the capital city of Uganda. Makindye is one of the divisions which make – up Kampala.

Mom Diane given chance for support these are the priorities of the business plan;

  1.     I would like to start a Piggery project starting with 10 pigs.
  2.         I would want to start poultry keeping in both layers and broilers (Starting with 100 broilers and 100 layers)
  3.         I would like to start a secretarial bureau which would include; Printer, Photocopier, Computer set, Scanner and stationery
  4.         I would like to start a Salon working on both men and women because they are working well also here.

Mom Diane from the four plans listed above I would like to take one from them and if sponsorship is available, I will carry out complete research for all what is necessary.

Thanks so much Mom Diane. May God richly bless you. I do pray for you and all those who will help me start a small project. This will not benefit me only but even the youth and women and may be it will one of the ways we can preach the gospel and even bring hope to others. I have passed through many problems in the world but I thank God I have come to learn many things through this experience in life. I used to walk to and fro looking for a solution and when I get bad news I would even shade tears but these days I just get into my room and rest, read my bible and continue praying to God for break through someday.

I wish you Mom Diane all the best. May God bless you and your family, May God bless the members on the website you sent me.

I love you all.

To be sure there is much more to learn about his projects but I am most interested in your comments and suggestion and ideas.  Lincoln has registered on this site with the screen name Pastorlincoln and he will answer any questions you might have.  Keep in mind that he is in Uganda and will only be able to answer when he is working and that will be during the night US time.  You can also email him directly if you wish.
By the way, I do want to welcome him as a new member of this site and I think our first member located in Africa.  I am sure we all look forward to hearing more from him as to Africa and it’s culture.  I am not sure how political he is, but he surely does know the culture.
Since I have written all of this diary I noticed Pastorlincoln has already signed on and has made comments. Here is his web site address:
www.pastorlincoln.faithweb.com
There is more to add to this story and I or he will do it in comments below.