Merry Christmas, every one! It’s 8.30am on Christmas Day here.
Our two girls have fallen asleep again after waking up at 2.57am and 4.30am respectively to see what Santa had left in their stockings. Lots of excited unwrapping and exclamations of delight later (“Dad, can you believe that Santa gave me a Barbie `laptop'”), they have snuggled down to sleep on the lounge and in a beanbag. This is very fortunate, as we have a long day ahead.
I’ve just made the mixture for the champagne crepes which will later form the basis for a smoked salmon & crepe `cake’ (recipe provided on demand). While it rests, I’ve checked the news and weather on the net. It will be fine and 25 degrees Celsius: rather cool for this time of year.
We’ll have some of my partner’s family here late in the morning and open our gifts to each other before eating lunch. Perhaps it’s a reflection of the age or of our social milieu that the family connections are a little curious. There’s my partner’s father and his second wife (the not-so-evil step-mom). Plus there’s the step mother’s mother and her brother, who’s returned from living in an Indian ashram to spend Christmas in Australia (yes, go figure!).
We’re also hoping for a visit from a woman who lives nearby and who seems to be spending Christmas alone. Her marriage to a friend of ours ended tragically earlier this year, and it’s his turn to have their boys. We feel pretty badly for her, as most of their friends seem to have opted to stick with him and haven’t remained in contact with her.
We’ll telephone other family members in different parts of Australia during the day. And late in the day we’ll probably see our family best friends who live 500 meters up the street.
So Christmas for us will involve far too much food and drink, excesses in the gift department, and lots of convivial time with family and friends.
My partner talked yesterday about the fact that she hadn’t managed to provide a gift to a local children’s home who said that they didn’t have enough gifts to go around. It seems that their teenage boys are not well provided for by donors.
This, and a discussion about our lonely friend, reminded me that I used to get very sad as a child when I thought about all the people in the world who don’t have enough to eat. Lately I’ve thought a lot about the suffering of children. Our own adopted daughter prompts me to think about the baby girls abandoned in China due to the one-child policy, economics and social attitudes. A staggering 100,000 of them each year have no hope of ever having a family life.
When I was younger I was politically active, hoping to correct the injustices of the world. These days being a parent, and an employee of the reactionary Australian government, means that there isn’t time for political activism, and even if there were it would be detrimental to my employment. So I mainly just feel powerless and seethe about the problems of the world. Perhaps my daughters will be able to change it. Oh, they’ve both woken again, and Keith Jarrett’s Köln Concert (my partner’s choice on the CD player to keep the girls asleep) is giving way to Santa Claus is Coming to Town.
What are you doing at Christmas, and how do you feel about the world?
Cross-posted at European Tribune.
but some readers may be interested in how Greenpeace activists are spending Christmas: harassing the Japanese whaling fleet in the Southern Ocean. Check the Ocean Defenders weblog – the 23 December post by Nathan is particularly interesting reading.
I, too have thought about the children left in China. We came home in September with our son Andrew, who is now 17 months old. This is his first Christmas. I look at all his toys, made in China, and I can’t help but think about the oppression of workers everywhere, thanks to the outsourcing of jobs from Western nations. I am happy that he will not face those conditions.
I am thrilled to share our house with this little bundle of energy, who will any day take his first steps.
We can change the world one person at a time. Thanks to you, your friend will not spend Christmas alone. Your kindness will play itself out many times as your daughters learn from you.
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Toni, I am so happy for you and your little Andrew!!! Have a lot of Christmas fun and take lots of pictures and we can’t wait to see them!
Yours is a very blessed family, each of you. Enjoy!
A very Merry Christmas!
Big Hugs
Shirl
What general area are you in? (State.)
We are in Southeast Michigan – Detroit area.
Toni, it sounds like you adopted Andrew at around the same age we adopted our daughter. Looking back with two years’ hindsight, we can see now that she was so bewildered and scared when she first met us. We really hope that her life has improved as a result of meeting us and coming to Australia. She is such a determined and bright little girl with a positive disposition. And yet I constantly wonder about whether and how she has been scarred by her experiences.
I hope so much that you enjoy your first Christmas with your son, and he with you.
My adopted daughter literally shook with excitement this morning when she ripped the wrapping from the presents Santa had brought.
Much love to you, your partner and Andrew!
Lovely diary. A most happy holiday to you, your partner, and your daughters.
I do think that the times in our lives when we feel powerless and seething have a silver lining, which is that they narrow the focus of our opportunities down to only a few possibilities: working on finding and steadying the center of peace within ourselves; refusing to take our seething out on others, and working on identifying and taking back our own projections. Then we may get lucky enough to radiate outward and see what kinds of larger effects our own small individual peace may have in the world. It’s a science experiment. 🙂
This diary of yours radiated something nice into the world. Thanks.
Merry Christmas to you Canberra Boy, my friend from down under, hope the new year brings you great joy and peace.
Merry Christmas and best wishes to you, too, Diane. Thanks for all the great things you have brought to this site and the blogosphere over the last year.
I tried to make a post yesterday but my computer was all fried for some reason. I was going to post that at least our Aussie brothers make the best MRE’s, as some of the Aussie’s gave them to my husband at Al Asad as they departed. The Aussies secured the region there first (the Fallujah region) and are very formidable on the battlefield according to my husband, if only we had all truly been in danger how different it all would be. Today I find my new bone china is designed by Aussie Alex Liddy. Great dishes, who is this Alex Liddy? Happy New Year and kiss the babies!
MRE’s home and we all ate it one night to get the feel. It had lots of accoutrements, even vegemite in a tube. Nobody cleaned up the vegemite though.