Once again the Democratic Party acts just like the Republicans. They only like our money and our votes!!!
Howard Dean lied to gay Democrats
Gay Democrats should withhold money until the party reinstates the abolished gay outreach office.
Friday, February 10, 2006
LIKE MANY GAY Democrats, I was shocked to learn from a report in the Blade last week that party chief Howard Dean had abolished the Democratic National Committee’s office of GLBT outreach.
http://www.washblade.com/2006/2-10/view/editorial/e2.cfm
Ramon Gardehire lives in Washington, D.C., and is the former deputy director for GLBT Outreach for the Democratic National Committee; he can be reached at ramongardehire@hotmail.com.
(cross posted at Booman Tribune, My Left Wing, refinish69)
As the former deputy director of the office, I see this decision as an affront to all progressive Democrats, GLBT or straight, especially considering the importance of the gay vote and gay dollars to the party.
After the 2004 election, the Office of GLBT Outreach issued a report with exit polling showing that more than 4.6 million self-identified GLBT voters cast ballots in the presidential, congressional and state races. Of those, an estimated 81 percent vote for the Kerry-Edwards ticket, roughly 6 percent of their total.
The outreach office hired GLBT coordinated campaign staff in 15 of the 21 battleground states, helping us to secure victory in Michigan and Pennsylvania.
The gay outreach office also built an e-mail database of nearly 80,000 GLBT activists and voters to help our candidates across the country. With the elimination of the Office of GLBT Outreach, these types of grassroots activities will fall by the wayside.
GAY AND LESBIAN Americans have been and continue to be among the Democratic Party’s biggest financial supporters, contributing more than $5 million in 2004. GLBT voters are also among the most loyal, second only to African Americans in party allegiance.
Now our loyalty is rewarded with the elimination of the GLBT outreach office. And to add insult to injury, Dean has decided to maintain the DNC’s Gay & Lesbian Leadership Council, which raises money for the party from gay donors.
Intentional or not, the message this sends is simple: Our money may be good enough, but we are not.
Defending his move, Dean has been touting his new American Majority Partnership, whose stated goal is to integrate efforts to address the concerns of different minority groups into all of the DNC’s departments and offices.
Yes, there are issues that unite us, but there are also issues specific to gay Americans that must be advocated for, and trusting them to a bureaucratic roundtable trying to work with every minority group will only slow things down.
Some argue this shift at the DNC suggests that Dean believes gay rights may have hurt the Democrats politically. If that is the case, Dean is wrong.
It was wavering and weaving and blatant pandering on gay rights by the party’s leadership and candidates that hurt the party—-not our struggle for equality. In fact, exit poll data from the 2004 election shows voter opposition on marriage and other issues was limited to a vocal minority within the Republican Party—-most independent swing voters didn’t base their votes on our issues.
WHAT’S EVEN WORSE than the DNC’s disservice to gay Americans is the fact that Howard Dean lied on this very issue.
During his campaign to become DNC chair, Dean stated in a questionnaire from the DNC Gay Caucus that, if elected, he would retain the office of GLBT outreach.
Dean has broken his word and his flip-flop is tearing at the contract between the Democratic Party and GLBT voters, which has benefited both for so long. This gay Democrat is growing increasingly tired of political cowardice and lies.
I am and always will be a Democrat despite Dean’s actions. I truly believe that Democratic values align with America’s promise of equality and opportunity for all. But until the Democratic Party can again find its moral compass and adhere to the principles that make me a Democrat, I will withhold financial support and encourage others to do the same.
Until the Office of GLBT Outreach is re-established, we should send contributions to candidates who champion our issues. As with most things in politics, money and our silence will speak volumes, until Dean and the DNC are ready to listen.
We cannot be complacent in our own marginalization.
I am furious and I hope every GLBT person and our friends let Dean know what we think of his throwing us to the curb yet again!!!
This sounds bad-I keep wanting to believe the best of Dean but this…sounds bad. Sounds too much like main stream pol. logic, take their money and ignore their voices. I’ll be on the phone and email brigade on this. Damn, I’m seriously sad and angry…and I’m sick of being angry, keep wondering when it will stop.
It seems never. we are expendable to all of them.
I am not satisfied with the answer and am still upset.
Hi Refinish69,
I am from NH, state right next door to Vermont. I want to first say, I do understand your viewpoint, and its really must seem like betrayal to you.
What I’d like to ask you to do is be open to a “regional” explanation – is that fair?
Howard Dean did not really abandon the GLBT community. Where we come from in Northern New England, we truly do NOT differentiate by applying SEPARATE labels to those who are discriminated against. All he actually did was create a single grouping for ALL who suffer discrimination, Blacks, Hispanics, Gays, single moms. etc. Think about it! One of Howard Deans “Hot Buttons” is lack of medical insurance for kids, and their inability to get decent meals at school. He DID NOT have a separate Department for them did he? Yet isn’t their condition equally as discriminating and debilitating as those of the GLB Community?
Also, it was Howard Dean who signed the very FIRST Civil Union law, giving the GLB the same rights as others. This was years before Gay Marriage and other issues became prominent.
In ALL of Northern New England we have this sense of “community” that is almost inexplicable to those who have not experienced it. There is first the MYOB philosophy – which means “Mind Your Own Business”. However if we KNOW a neighbor is in trouble, we “fix” it. Vermont is a place with a very vibrant and well integrated gay community that dates back to the civil rights fights of the 60’s. Many, many gays moved to VT during that time.
I realize I am doing a poor job of allaying you fears. If you have time, I ask that you actually “experience” the reality of it. How? Attend a REAL town meeting. In Northern New England they are held the first or second Tuesday of March. Be prepared to stay overnight. The meetings can run from 2 hours to past midnight. Every topic from A-Z can, and usually does come up. It’s not only people talking or asking questions of the town leaders. Its also everyone, respectfully waiting their turn, and responding to the comments/ideas of their neighbors. That direct speech, everyone dissed Howard Dean on, is the WAY we talk to each other in Northern New England. So please attend, and you will KNOW the right moment to bring up your issue. Be prepared for some very direct comments, which may be hard for someone from NC to hear. By all means stay for the refreshments that the ladies of the town will have made. There is always, coffee, tea, sodas, cakes, pies, cookies etc., available for the end of the meeting. This “breaking of bread” helps alleviate the intensity of harsh statements made by neighbors during the meeting.
I urge you to contact the town halls, pick one you like, and see how this type of “community” works in action. Then you may truly understand that not having a SEPARATE group for each type of discrimination, is truly inculcated into the culture of community problem solving.
Please let me know how it all works out for you.
I hav ebeen to town hall meetings. I am politically active and have been for years. I will wait and see what happens but right now it just feels like another instance of a promise being made to the GLBT Community and thrown out when it is not convienent any more. I have to be honest and say I am sick of this rational in the party and elected officials and am really hoping I am wrong this time.
I truly feel the pain in your remarks. I have a sister and a cousin who are gay. Just as certain things are “hot buttons” for me, because I am living the experience, I am sure the same is true for you.
Do not know what “town meetings” you have been to, but I can promise those in Northern New England are very different from any others I have seen around the country.
A suggestion – your particular type of discrimination seems most intense to you, because you live it-perhaps reaching out to someone from another group discriminated against will provide the distance for perspective. – just a thought.
Keep well
Thank you. I am reaching out and have been. I have been active in civil rights- not just gay rights- most of my life even as a white male. Many long nights spent comparing notes, history, hate, and success. I am not giving up!!! The struggle is more important than the party or one more broken promise.