I think we can all sense the tug that is tightening as we draw closer to the election next week. We want to hope again, but we’ve been dashed too often in the recent past, so the doubts and fears creep in. The question becomes, do we cling to our hope that we can win, or do we prepare ourselves to fight the battle of a stolen victory? It becomes agonizing after awhile.
My thoughts today are that our vision is way too small if we put all our hopes in the outcome of an election. I will vote next Tuesday and do everything I can to ensure that as many Democrats get elected as possible. But I’m working real hard to make sure that my hopes are not just pinned on winning. Because even if the Democrats sweep it all, the right wing noise machine will only gear up louder until things are horribly ugly. We’ll fight that battle when it happens, but too much is wrong with our country these days to think that an election will solve it all.
So, where’s the hope? This is a question that has been rolling around in my head alot this last week. I’ve been thinking about a speech I heard a few years ago by Cornell West. He pointed out that any sense of real hope gets crowded out of our culture by cynicism on one hand and superficiality on the other. I think that is the trap we find ourselves in. Because we are committed to questioning – especially authority – we on the left are often focused on how our leaders lead us astray and the cynicism grows. And those on the right depend on some kind of transcendent hope that they think comes from God, miracles or, in the worst case, the rapture. They wave their flags, sing their patriotic songs, ignore reality and hope that God/Bush will keep them safe. This is often what passes for hope in our culture.
I’ll give you a taste of a different approach to hope that came to me this week. I am the Executive Director of a non-profit organization working with kids in trouble. A few weeks ago, we asked some of these young people to draw a picture about their hopes. We chose one picture to have printed on t-shirts. I wish I could copy the image, but don’t have the technical skills to do so, so I’ll just have to describe it and let you draw the mental picture. It is a heart with one eye in it. Around the picture are these words:
See about love
See about peace
See about each other
As they say, out of the mouth of babes comes wisdom about the real meaning of hope.
So today I think about a hope that is grounded in what our eyes can see and our hearts can feel. It is grounded in the very essence of me; what I believe about myself, and therefore what I can see in others. Rather than the superficial hope of the right, my hope embraces the rage, the struggle, the beauty and the love that is part of life. Its the same hope that Madman pointed us to in his diary Dia De Los Muertos. It is about the hope of those in the past that continued to believe even when everything pointed to despair.
I know very little about Buddhism, but recently I’ve been struck by the idea that, just as courage cannot exist without fear, hope cannot exist without despair. When we are surrounded by that despair, our hope is made real.
I think that one of the things we can do for each other, both here on the blogs and in our real life, is to demonstrate our hope and bring it to life. You see, I think hope is contagous. Lets spread some around.
Wow, just wow! I finally got around to reading this and am so impressed. I too am fearful of pinning my hopes on this election. It will take more than just winning a majority in either houses to make the change we would hope to see. We have only just begun to fight but as long as we can hope, we can persevere. Thank you for an outstanding diary.
Perhaps one of the things that sparked my thinking about this was a book on cd that I recently listened to on a road trip. Its “Three Cups of Tea” about a guy named Greg Mortenson. He got lost trying to climb K2 and was taken care of in a little village in the mountains of Pakistan. He promised to come back and build them a school as a way to repay their kindness. Years later he heads the Central Asia institute and is “fighting terrorism” by building schools – mostly for girls – in Afganistan and Pakistan. At last count they had build 55 schools. Amazing what one man, with hope, can do.
Hope comes, i think, from the ability to envision something better. It comes as a last refuge of a battered and beaten soul and psyche. When all concrete answers are no longer forthcoming, when ideas and plans fall short, hope is all that’s left. It’s a survival mechanism. Faith is closer to what I feel when rationale fails. Not religeous faith. But faith in myself, in the basic good that lives inside people. Faith that no matter what, everything will workout alright because I’ve seen it over and over. Hope, faith, and patience. Along with a good dose of righteous indignation and action. We’ll get their. Believe it :o)
Peace
And hope comes from knowing there are people like you out there.
Thanks Kahli. And I do think there is a “community” component that is necessary to have hope. Madman made that point so beautifully in the diary I linked to.
and I woke up one morning and started this
Signs Of Hope
I was inspired after reading this:
HOPE
Hope is the doorway to belief, belief is the doorway to knowing, knowing is the doorway to creation, and creation is the doorway to experience.
Experience is the doorway to expression, expression is the doorway to becoming, becoming is the activity of all Life and the only function of God.
What you hope, you will eventually believe, what you believe you will eventually know, what you know, you will eventually create, what you create, you will eventually experience, what you experience you will eventually express, what you express you will eventually become.
This is the formula for all of life.
It is as simple as that.
Neale Donald Walsch
Sometimes the only thing we have is “Hope” – hope has spared me from falling into the depression pit many times.
One of the best things about me is every morning when I wake up I have that butterfly stomach feeling and am always excited about the new day. (I know that stomach feeling is probably gas, but it works for me:-)
Thanks for sharing this roseeriter! There is so much wisdom in that quote.
I don’t know much about the concept of Karma, but in my life I have certainly seen the demonstration that those who put out positive energy seem to make good things happen and those who constantly focus on the negative seem to attract negative experiences.
And as I said before, I don’t think hope comes from ignoring the hard or difficult side of life – that’s the superficial approach to hope. But its the immersing of ourselves in the struggle with hope that seems transformative to me.
A long time ago I read a parable that I can’t find anywhere now. It was about an old woman who spent all her time trying to sweep away the dark. In the end, she wound up being so tired during the daytime that her life was consumed with darkness. I think it was making a point about those who let themselves be consumed with getting rid of evil, but I think it applies to hope as well. If anyone knows about that story, I’d love to find it again.
Hope is the underlying “hum”
sung by our collective best
a soft strong toning
that sustains us
even when we cannot
hear it clearly
A beautifully written diary, NL, badly needed right now. Thank you for it,
Beautifully, eloquently said, NL. Thank you.
Since your diary’s title poses a question, can’t help myself from attempting an answer — since given words to a concept helps clarify it.
IMHO, hope comes from the same place as faith, both of which must be based in clear vision, unclouded by the subjective. Strong stuff indeed.
Today I had the priviledge of hearing Yolanda King (Martin and Coretta’s oldest daughter) speak at a luncheon. She is a trained actor and and the end of her talk about empowerment, she did a dramatic reading of Maya’s poem. Not a dry eye in the house.