It is with deep regret that I must inform you that Martin’s brother Andrew died unexpectedly yesterday afternoon. I have been asked to post this announcement on his behalf.
At present, Martin is in mourning with his family. His posting here at Booman Tribune is likely to be greatly curtailed, unless as he said to me via email, he feels the need to do some “therapeutic blogging.” For the time being, and out of respect for his privacy, I have nothing else to say about what is for him and his family a great tragedy.
For those of you who wish to send him your condolences or other thoughts, please leave them here as a comment to this post. I am sure he will appreciate any thing you wish to share or say to him.
At times like these, it is important for people who are grieving the loss of a loved one to know that their friends support them. It doesn’t matter so much what one says, just that you say it. Therefore, I ask, with humility, that those of you who make up this community, who come here to read Martin’s work at BT, whether you leave comments or not, to please do that one simple thing: Let Martin and his family know we have their backs in this, their time of grief and sorrow.
Thank you.
Ps. For anyone new to the blog, Martin is “BooMan” and this is his site.
Martin, I´m so, so sorry to hear of your and your family´s loss.
Best wishes and heartfet condolences to you and your family. Take good care.
Steven D, thanks for the post. Booman, so sorry for your loss.
Much sympathy for your loss. Take as much time as you need away from the rigors of blogging daily, not to mention the nonsense that is our current politics. I think I can speak for this community that we will be here when you are ready to get back to it.
Martin, my heartfelt condolences on your loss. Not much else to say about such a tragic event. Just know that I appreciate all that you write here and am saddened that this should have happened to you and yours.
Im so sorry, my best to you and your family. May you be able to love each other all the more during this difficult time.
My condolences Martin. Having lost a brother and my wife, I have some sense of what you are going through right now. Take your time, be gentle with yourself, it can take a long time to get over a loss such as this. Blogging can wait.
My condolences to Martin and to all whose lives were touched by his brother. Peace in their hearts; love in their memories.
I am very sorry to learn this news. I don’t know how many brothers Martin has, but he has posted very admiringly about one brother. If this is the same brother, this must be a shocking blow to the Longman family. Martin and his clan will be in my thoughts and heathen prayers this weekend.
Martin, so sorry to hear this. All the best to you and your family. We’ll miss you on break, but take as much time as you want.
Strange how you become close to people you’ve never met. Know that those of your friends you’ve never met have you in their hearts.
So sorry man. We’ll all be here when you get back.
I am praying for peace, perfect peace for all concerned.
I am very very sorry to hear this. My condolences to Martin and his family and all his brother’s friends.
I’m so sorry to hear this. Shit. Take care Martin and know that a lot of people care about you and your family.
Shocking. All my sympathies to Martin and his entire family.
So sorry for your loss. Celebrate his life and the times you have shared.
Oh, Martin. I am so very sorry. What a terrible loss. Saying a prayer and sending love your way.
So sorry to hear of your loss. Please accept my heartfelt condolences and good wishes for you.
I was 20 and studying in Paris when my father died suddenly of a heart attack at age 50. I flew home and read this at his funeral:
Gratitude to the Unknown Instructors
WB Yeats
What they set about to do, they brought to pass.
All things hang like a drop of dew upon a blade of grass.
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I’m grateful for your posts, my favorite blogger. I’m grateful for the occasional comments by Andrew that I’ve read. A very smart family.
“Our lives are not our own; from womb to tomb we are bound to others, past and present. And with each crime, and every kindness, we birth our future.”
– Sonmy451 in “Cloud Atlas”
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That’s Sonmi451 of course…
I am so sorry for your loss. There are no words of condolence that will make your loss any less painful, but do know that you and your family are in my thoughts.
I’m so sorry, Martin. There’s probably nothing that a community of usernames can do to help at such a time, but there’s a real depth of fondness for you–and your family–here, and I hope that if there -is- anything we can do, you’ll ask.
Booman, so sorry to hear this terrible news. My condolences to you and all your family. Andrew was also one of us, a lovely commenter. So sorry to hear.
This is terrible news. Wishing you and your family much strength, courage and love in the difficult days ahead.
So sorry, Martin. I lost my sister suddenly and unexpectedly, to what we thought was a chronic illness, one year ago tomorrow. It is a shock and pain like none other I’ve experienced. The death of someone who leaves too young with too much left undone is just so difficult.
I hope you and your family can comfort each other. And please know you have friends you have never met.
My sincere condolences to you and your family. May Andrew rest in peace.
I am so sorry Martin, my condolences to you and your family.
So sorry to hear.
I am sorry for you and your family at this time of great loss.
I’m very sorry for your loss.
I am stunned. Another case of never having met someone but still feeling the pain of a loss. Andrew was a frequent commenter here and, like his brother, always had a prescient and well thought out point of view.
Words don’t do justice at a time like this, but please accept my condolences and know that everyone here has you and all of your family in their thoughts.
Peace, Martin.
Martin – my thoughts and prayers – thanks for your superb blog posts – the best – God Speed! — Pete
I am deeply saddened by this news. My sincerely condolences to Martin and his family and friends. I wish I had some kind words, but no words can ease the shock of a sudden loss so great. Hugs and know we are with you in thought and spirit.
I am so sorry for your loss and pain. The shock must be terrible. My thoughts are with you
Sad and unexpected news. My condolences to you and your family.
Wow. Really really really sorry to hear this news.
Marty, you are often in my thoughts, and I’m sorry I haven’t had as much chance to see you & Erica recently.
Long time lurker here, Booman. I am so sorry for your loss. I know how hard a sudden loss can be. Hopefully being supported by family and friends can help get you through.
I am so sad to hear of this news. Martin, I’m so sorry. Sending you and your family big hugs and sympathy.
Martin, my deepest condolences to you and your family. Shocking to hear about this.
Oh no! I am so sorry to hear this news. My condolences to Martin and his family.
I’m so sorry Marty.
My deep condolences.
In case you feel you need it.. in a couple of days, I hope you find this as helpful as I found it when I was going through the same pain:
Chapman
What a truly terrible loss. Andrew’s comments here hinted at a sharp thinker with skills and attributes I can only guess at. Condolences, Martin, to you and your family, and as others have said, take all the time you need away from BT. We’ll be here.
Wow, Martin, this is terrible. I’m so sorry for your loss. Even though most of us here have never met you in person, I can say that I consider you a friend.
Sincere condolences.
Oh man, I’m so sorry. This is very shocking and sad news. I’ve known Andrew only here and at the Monthly as a very fine and sensitive writer and thinker, but I’m sure he was a wonderful person as well and it must be a dreadful loss. All affection and wishes for healing.
Martin,
I’m so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother, Andrew. You and your family have my deepest sympathies and warmest wishes.
No words, just love.
Have never commented before, although I’m a long-time reader, but I created an account for the sole purpose of letting you and your family know how very sorry I am about your brother’s death. May you find peace and comfort in your memories of Andrew.
martin, my deepest condolences to you and your family. l know personally how deeply the loss of a brother is felt.
may you and your family find peace and solace together.
there’s not much words can do at times like this but you have my deepest condolences . do what you’ve gotta to get through this – left blogistan ain’t going anywhere. but we’ll miss you that’s for sure.
Martin I am so sorry for your family’s loss. My wife and I will keep you and yours in our thoughts during this difficult and tragic time. Take good care Booman.
My deepest condolences, Martin. Peace be with you and yours during this difficult time. You will be missed. Family comes first. Always.
My deepest condolences to the Longman family and to Andrew’s work colleagues and friends on this loss. Andrew’s comments on Booman Tribune were frequently clarifying and always brought the perspective of where he was seeing politics in action. As a commenter here, he will be sorely missed.
” As a commenter here, he will be sorely missed.”
Indeed!
I am so sorry.
Oh hell. Somethings are just not understandable. This is one of them. Wish I could send you a quick visit with my GennyJo to have a big black furry thing to hug and talk things over with. Will be sending thoughts of strength to you and your family.
I only knew Andrew through his posts. I am shocked and saddened at his passing. I’m sure we would have been friends if we really knew each other.
In some ways the loss of a sibling is harder than a loss of a parent. As adults we all know that our parents will likely die before us. We do not expect that of our brothers and sisters. I had no brother but have three grandsons. I have often observed the interactions of brothers and I know that you have lost a part of your soul. My deepest hope for your recovery from this blow.
In honor of Andrew, I have disabled my sig. This transcends politics.
sad times, indeed.
So sorry for your loss. Prayers for your family.
Delurking because I value all that you give to us who read here. Sudden death is always traumatic and difficult. Please know that we hold you in the light as you work through these coming days. If there is aught we can do, you have but to ask.
I am very sorry to read this. My heartfelt condolences to you and your family, Martin.
My sympathies to you and your family, Martin. May you all find comfort in your shared love and memories of Andrew.
This too shall pass, Martin.
Been there, seen it.
Lived it. Several times.
Hang in there.
Grieve.
And then jump back into the fray.
Later…
Arthur
Deepest condolences to you and your family for your loss.
What terrible news.
I am very sorry for your loss. In your grief I hope you take solace in the happiness that your brother brought to the loved ones in his life.
I’m very sorry Martin. Peace to you and your family. Remember the good times.
Cheers,
Scott.
So so sorry for your loss, Martin. Will be thinking of you, your brother and your family.
Jeez, Marty. There are no words.
Our Love and Comfort to you and yours, old friend.
Oh wow, I’m so sorry for your loss
How very sad. My thoughts are with you.
Martin, my heart aches for you and your family–what a shock it must be.
Please know that there are many of us out here who are thinking of you. The small community that is this blog gives it an intimacy that at times like this makes us all want to give you a warm embrace.
So sorry to hear about your loss Martin.
Take your time and best of luck to you and your family
My condolences to you and your family for your loss. If, as Steven D suggests, you do need to do some “therapeutic blogging,” know that the community you’ve built will be here to offer you our virtual shoulders.
best wishes.
I’m sorry Booman. What a horrible nightmare.
Martin,
My Sympathies to you and your family. As others have said, we’ll be hear when you get back. God bless and peace to you.
You and your family are in my heart. Already miss you, too.
Just created an account after long time lurking to add my voice to everyone else’s in expressing deepest condolences. This is one of my favorite sites. Thoughts and prayers for you and your family, BooMan/Martin.
I’m so very sorry for Martin and his family’s loss. What a tragedy. I’ll miss Andrew’s company here at BT as well.
My sincere condolences.
I’m very sorry to hear of your loss. Please take care. Your blog has brought me great pleasure and I look forward to your return.
Charlie
My sincere condolences, Martin. We are with you.
I echo the comments of others here. I’ve read so many of Andrew’s posts – it’s a shock to hear of this. I wish all the best for Martin and his family.
My deepest condolences. While I realize that we cannot truly share you sorrow, I hope you understand that this family at this blog does deeply care about you and grieves for your loss.
Your blog means a lot to me and I know – from your references to him over the years – that your brother was very important to you. Big loss. I’m sorry.
My deepest condolences Martin.
RIP Andrew
My sincere condolences to you and your family. I remember when Andrew first started posting here. I remember you writing about him. He, like you, was a fine and original thinker and writer. May his memory be a blessing.
I knew Andrew and his son from another online community (before there was a Booman), and this just sucks.
Boo, give Trev a hug from all the folks at 7G and Offcamber.
RIP
will you let them know? I didn’t know how.
Trevor put something up last night.
Oh, okay. Thanks for telling me.
My heartfelt condolences. I wish you and your family the strength to deal with your great loss. Vincent
Martin, terrible news. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. My condolences.
So very sorry to hear of your loss. A close friend, brother always leaves a void.
We knew him as a profound blogger and will be w/o his excellent contribution …
I’ll miss the laughs
I’ll miss the words
I’ll miss you buddy
Till we meet again
Rest In Peace Brother
My heart goes out to Martin and the family. I can only imagine the shock they are all in.
I’m sorry for your loss, Martin.
Dear Martin,
Though I know you as Booman I want to express my deepest condolances on the passing of your brother. As a fellow Jersey boy and erstwhile Deadhead my heart goes out to you at this time of loss.
I am so sorry to hear of your brother’s passing. Sending love and strength.
So sorry Booman
We will keep you in our thoughts
Refrained from posting for a while because I didn’t know what to say. I still don’t. I’m so sorry, Martin.
I’m sort of a lurker here, although I always tweet your posts out. Been coming to this site pretty faithfully for years.
I’m so sorry for your loss. I can’t tell you that I know how it feels. But I can tell you I’m sending good vibes to you and your family. I’m hoping you take this time to grieve together, heal together. I’m hoping one day you find peace.
You’ve really changed how I view a lot of things. I can’t thank you enough for that.
Martin, I was very sad to read Steve D’s announcement of Andrew’s passing. We look forward to your return with our full support. I’m in pretty much the same condition as one of my best college friends lost his year long fight with lymphoma this past Monday. We ought to raise a fine whiskey toast to our loved ones at this difficult time.
Very sorry for your devastating loss: please accept my condolences.
So sorry to hear this. Very best thoughts sent your way, and hopes for healing.
I’m so very sorry, Martin. Andrew’s comments were always well worth reading, revealing a keen mind and a thoughtful, great-hearted man. He will be missed, by many more than his family.
I, too, have enjoyed Andrew’s comments here and always made the effort to read them. My deepest sympathies to you and your family for your tragic and unexpected loss.
Very sorry to hear, Martin. Very best wishes and thoughts.
What a sad event. He couldn’t have been too old. My condolences, Boo.
Dear Martin,
I am so sorry for your loss. As I write these words they seem stale to me. But in truth there are no adequate words to use in such a situation. I don’t know if you blame yourself for missed chances with your brother but please don’t. Being thankful for the luck which one has had in the company of a loved one, and to remember the good moments one has had together, is the best one can do. I know it is easier said than done. I lost my husband and partner of 40 years this June, and the wound is still raw. I wish you all the strength and courage you will need.
Sorrow greetings from across the Ocean,
Sophie
This is truly heartbreaking news, Martin.
I always loved it when I ran into Andrew around the pond. He often taught me something, too.
Peace and love to you and yours.
Wow, very sorry to hear about this.
we are sad to hear of your loss.
Very sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my thoughts.
I am so sorry to hear this sad news. I send my deepest sympathy to you and your family. Andrew replied to one of my comments barely more than a week ago, I felt like I was just getting to know him.
So sorry to hear this news. I hope you will find the love and support you need to see you through this difficult time.
Martin, I’m so sorry for your loss. I offer my deepest condolences and sympathies to you and all those who cared for your brother.
Martin, you are a very good man. I think that must be a very good reflection on your brother Andrew’s influence in your life. That is a loss all by itself. Worse yet, just losing someone you love. I’m sorry. It’s as deep a pain as the love you shared. Be patient with yourself. Be awake to this when you need to or can and make time to look after yourself too.
Best Regards,
Patrick
Martin, so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you. Peace, Dean
Martin,
We love you and we’re praying for all of you. You have my deepest sympathies.
My web activity/blog reading has been way down since I started working 2 jobs, but I just checked in today after a long absence and saw this news. I’m very sorry. Best wishes to you and your family in the days ahead.
Sorry for your loss, Martin. And thank you for posting about the music your brother shared with you. I love John Prine.