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She's super sweet, she's just still got that puppy thing that makes her listening abilities selective and her teeth in…
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Thanks! Unfortunately, she knows it, too! She's considerably less cute when she chews random things -- lately, it's been books.…
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Took our pup to her first ever snowy day on monday. She had a great time, very silly. Wouldn't hold…
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Totally agree with this, though I simultaneously wish we'd get lots of kids to learn the basics of self-defense. "Know…
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"No one is actually behind some curtain somewhere pulling little levers to maintain the patriarchy.  " Also absolutely true. It's…
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What you're getting at is understanding the boy, while I think what I'm getting at (I won't answer for Indy)…
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"but you will NEVER get me to concede that women are in any way shape or form responsible for RAPE."…
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"Certainly an idea that is likely to be uncomfortable for men who like to think that just because they've never…
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Hmmm. I'm not sure I agree that this is entirely true. Because in my experience, rape was about policing the…
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"What drives it is a greater allegiance to the peer group than to your own autonomy and your own feelings."…
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But that big picture is exactly the point, because while the teenage boy isn't, probably, thinking on the surface one…
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Sure, everybody wants to be attractive. We all deal with that in different ways. But there is a gendered dynamic…
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"But this same peer pressure is obviously a big part of what pushes young men to pressure young girls.  And…
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Oh, mind you, it was a bitter, sneering kind of guffaw. But those are the kind that usually get me…
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I have to admit that this made me guffaw. I just had to let you know that.
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"is that is never reflected how I looked at women, or what I wanted out of a relationship.  Sometimes it…
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that to some degree, you have to be able to differentiate between men (and women) on an individual level and…
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one, thanks so much for sharing this; these things are incredibly important and far too rarely discussed in the open.…
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I'm okay with visiting it, though I see no reason to go to the Castro at this point. I'm just…
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if she called it The Castro, y'all would have to find a whole lot of really snarky gay boys with…
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